Getting To Yes Ch 5 7
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Getting to Yes
Negotiating Agreement Without Giving In
(Chapters 5-7)
Group #5
Colleen Doyle
Shayna Pearson
Jonathan Sell
Jerry Smith
Four points for principled negotiations
People: separate the people from the
problem
Interests: focus on interests, not positions
Options: generate a variety of possibilities
before deciding what to do
Criteria: insists that the results be based
on some objective standard
Agenda
Insist on using objective criteria.
What if they are more powerful?
What if they won’t play?
Recommendations
Using Objective Criteria
Using the Basis of Will
Positional bargaining
Focuses on what parties are willing or unwilling to
accept
Very costly
Inefficient and time consuming
Can create animosity between parties
Results in a winner and a loser
Example: ego becomes identified with position
so it must be defended
Using Objective Criteria
All parties need to be on the same page
Principled negotiation
Use standard terms, precedence
More efficient – less time wasted
Parties can defer to a fair solution without
giving in
Example: contracting to have a house built and
using agreed-to safety standards
Developing Objective Criteria
Prepare in advance
Develop alternative standards beforehand
Think through their application to your case
Fair standards
Independent of each side’s will
ideally also legitimate and practical
Apply to both sides
test of reciprocal application
Developing Objective Criteria
Fair Procedures
“One cuts and the other chooses”
Cake dividing example
Parties negotiate fair agreement before determining
their role
Divorce negotiation: before custody decided, both parties
decide visitation rights of other parent
Other
Taking turns
• Dividing heirlooms
Letting someone else decide
• Mediation, arbitration (last best offer arbitration)
Objective Criteria in Negotiation
Frame each issue as a mutual search for
objective criteria.
“You want a high price, I want a low price. Lets figure
out what a fair price would be.”
Be reasonable and open to reason concerning
use and application of standards.
Don’t be biased towards the standards that you
advance, others can have legitimate obj. criteria.
Never bend to pressure, only to principle.
Bribes, threats, manipulative appeals to trust, or simple
refusal to budge.
What If They Are More Powerful?
Develop Your BATNA – Best Alternative To a Negotiated Agreement
Protecting Yourself
The cost of using a bottom line
Bottom line = Resistance point (ex: the maximum price you are willing to
pay); it is a position that is not to be changed
Bottom line makes it easier to resist pressure
Limits ability to benefit from what you learn during negotiation
Inhibits imagination and reduces incentive to invent a tailor-made
solution
Almost certain to be too rigid
Likely to be set too high or too low
Adopting a bottom line may protect you from accepting a very bad
agreement but it may keep both parties from inventing and agreeing to a
solution that would be wise to accept.
Protecting Yourself
Know your BATNA
Standard against which any proposed agreement should be measured
Flexible enough to permit the exploration of imaginative solutions
The insecurity of an unknown BATNA
Makes you overly pessimistic about what would happen if the
negotiation broke off
Having at least a tentative answer to what you would do if no agreement
is reached is essential to conducting negotiations wisely.
Formulate a trip wire
Identify one far from perfect agreement that is better than your BATNA
Can limit authority of an agent
Should provide some margin in reserve
Always keep your BATNA in mind
Be careful about disclosing your BATNA
Making the Most of Your Assets
The better BATNA, the more powerful you are
Relative negotiating power of 2 parties depends on how
attractive the option of not reaching an agreement is to each
party
Develop your BATNA
1. Invent a list of actions to take if no agreement is reached
2. Improve some more promising ideas and convert to
practical alternatives
3. Tentatively select the alternative that seems best
– The better the BATNA, the greater the ability to improve
terms of any negotiated agreement
Consider the other side’s BATNA
The more you can learn about their alternatives the better
prepared you are for negotiation
Consider what you can do to change their BATNA
If attractive BATNA for both sides, best option may be to not
reach an agreement
When the Other Side is Stronger
Don’t turn a negotiation into a gun fight
Negotiate on merits
Having a good BATNA can help to negotiate on merits
The more easily and happily you can walk away
from a negotiation, the greater your capacity to
affect its outcome
Developing your BATNA is perhaps the most
effective course of action you can take in dealing
with a seemingly more powerful negotiator
What if they won’t play?
Use negotiation jujitsu.
Getting Them to Play
What if they won’t negotiate?
Other party might focus on “bargaining” and not
negotiating
Three basic approaches
First, focus on what you can do
Principled negotiation, concentrate on the issues
Then, focus on what they may do
Redirect attacks and use Negotiation Jujitsu
Third, focus on what a third-party can do
Third party focuses on interests, options, and criteria for
both parties involved.
Example
Jujitsu
What if they still won’t negotiate?
Negotiation Jujitsu
Resort to Negotiation Jujitsu
Four methods to using Negotiation Jujitsu
Typical attack might include:
Asserting their own position
Attacking your ideas
Attacking you
Negotiation Jujitsu
Don’t attack their position, look behind it
Neither reject nor accept their position
Example
Don’t defend your ideas, invite criticism
and advice
Ask for their opinions and make them feel as
though you care
Example
Negotiation Jujitsu
Recast an attack on you as an attack on the
problem
Accept criticism and ask for more feedback
Ask questions and pause
Questions and silences can be used to draw the other
party out
Refocus the “bargaining” on problem solving,
and try to bring the other party into this
approach.
Money Phrases
3 important money phrases
Trust is a separate issue
Let me get back to you…
One fair solution might be…
Recommendations
Insist on using objective criteria.
Develop your BATNA.
Use negotiation techniques such as jujitsu.
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