Hes Not That Into You

							Submitted by Kerri Ward
Head Resident Advisor
Thompson Rivers University
  He’s just not that not that into
  you if he’s not asking you out.
• An Excuse is a polite rejection. Men are not
  afraid of “ruining the friendship.”
• Don’t get tricked into asking him out. If he
  likes you, he’ll do the asking.
• If you can find him, then he can find you.
  If he wants to find you, he will.
• Meeting at the bar or a friend’s house IS
  NOT A DATE
• Men don’t forget how much they like you,
  So put down the phone.
You are good enough to be asked out!
He’s just not that into you if he’s
         not calling you.
• If he’s not calling you, it’s because
  you’re not on his mind.
• Don’t be with someone who doesn’t do
  what they say they’re going to do.
• Busy is another word for jerk. Jerk is
  another word for the guy your dating
  that’s not calling.
YOU DESERVE A PHONE CALL
He’s just not that into you if he’s
         not dating you.
• Guys tell you how they feel even if you
  refuse to believe or listen to them.
• Better than nothing is not good enough
  for you.
• If you don’t know where the
  relationship is going, it’s okay to pull
  over and ask.
• Murky? Not good.
There’s a guy out there who will want to
 tell everyone that he’s your boyfriend.
  Quit goofing around and go find him.
He’s just not that into you if he only
wants to see you when he’s drunk.

• It doesn’t count unless he says it when
  he’s sober.
• Drinking and drug use is not a path to
  one’s inner most feelings.
• If he only wants to see you, talk to,
  have sex with you, etc., when he’s
  inebriated, it ain’t love-it’s sport.
• Bad boys are actually bad.
You deserve to be with someone
who doesn’t have to get loaded
      to be around you.
He’s just not that into you if he’s
     breaking up with you.
• You can’t talk your way out of a breakup.
  It is not up for discussion. A breakup is a
  definitive action, not a democratic one.
• Breakup sex still means your broken up.
• He doesn’t need to be reminded that
  you’re great.
• He can take care of his own dinner.
• “Classy” doesn’t break into his facebook
  account.
There’s a guy out there who’s
going to really happy that you
 didn’t get back together with
  your crappy ex-boyfriend.
 This is what the Book Suggests:

• Do not go out with a man who hasn’t asked
  you out first.
• Do not go out with a guy that keeps you
  waiting by the phone.
• Do not date a guy who isn’t sure he wants to
  date you.
• Do not date a guy who drinks or does drugs to
  an extent that you are uncomfortable with.
• Do not date a guy who is married.
• Do not date a guy who is afraid to talk about
  your future.