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SHINE brightly
January 2009
Vol. 38 No. 5
Cover Blurbs:
Generation Change
A Change is coming and that change could be you!

Plant a Garden in Zambia
(and never leave home!)

Will our Legacy be Garbage?
A cold hard look at trash

The Rock
One girl’s climb up an impossible wall

No, No, No
One unanswered prayer
One girls’ frustration
One reason to accept NO for an answer

Should I tell him I love him?
My parents won’t let me date
Dear Emma talks about boys
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         Sticky, used Chapstick is all about love—at least for me anyway. A few months
ago I had to go out of town for a few days. Before I left, my four-year-old daughter
handed me her used Chapstick. “This is for you to take, Mom. It is all full of my love.”
         My daughter’s gift wasn’t expensive, it wasn’t something I had been asking for,
and its sticky and used condition made it far from perfect. I’m sure anyone who found
that sticky Chapstick in the bottom of my purse would see it as worthless. However, that
sticky tube was one of the best gifts I’ve ever been given.
         There is a great Bible story about a woman who gave a pretty worthless gift. The
Bible tells us that Jesus was watching as people brought their offerings. Many people
offered great riches. But then a widow came by and dropped two coins into the offering.
The coins were worth less than a penny—a pretty worthless gift from our standards. But
Jesus called His disciples over and told them that the offering the woman had made was
far grander than any other. She gave everything she had. It wasn’t what she gave. It was
how she gave. It was the heart with which she gave. God doesn’t judge gifts the way the
world judges.
         You are young, you probably don’t have much money or power, but that doesn’t
mean that your gifts to God are insignificant. The next time you feel as though you have
nothing to give, remember the Chapstick, remember the coins. Remember how a sticky
tube delighted the heart of a mother. Remember that two small and seemingly worthless
coins delighted and pleased the heart of your Abba Father.

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SHINE brightly
January 2009
Vol. 38 No. 5
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Generation Change                                              4
Ripening Mangos                                                6
No for an Answer                                               8
Green Team                                                     10
Dear Emma                                                      12
You Warm My Heart                                              14
Wet Paint                     16
The Rock                      18
Reflecting Light              20
Life Lessons from the Bible   21
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Zach Hunter
Generation Change

“Generation Change is not going to wait for someone else—someone who’s older or
better qualities; someone with more cash or more free time. Generation Change is not
going to wait for someday. We are going to seize this day and breathe new life and hope
and justice and freedom and peace and love into it. Because, we know that we are the
someone and today is the day!” – Zach Hunter

Zach Hunter is an abolitionist. An abolitionist is someone who works to abolish slavery.
It’s estimated that more than 27 million people in the world are held in slavery (Free the
Slaves). Modern-day slaves are forced to work in brick kilns, rice mills, fishing villages,
or brothels.

This wasn’t OK with Zach Hunter. At age twelve he founded the student-led anti-slavery
campaign Loose Change to Loosen Change. His goal is to have slavery wiped from the
planet. Zach is now 16. He spends his summers speaking to tens of thousands of people
about helping change the world and about the topic of modern day slavery. In his second
book, Generation Change, he calls out a younger generation to become active in social
justice issues.

“Its purpose is to shed a little light on some of the biggest problems facing our generation
and inspire people to find ways they can make a difference. It’s easy to complain about
what’s wrong with the world today. But I think my generation is tired of hearing
complaints and excuses, and we’re eager to see people get busy and do something about
the problems,” writes Hunter.
“I believe our generation should launch a new movement of peace, love and justice—but
this time, do it with God. The hippies talked a lot about ‘free love,’ but we’ve got to
realize that true, lasting, life-changing love isn’t free. It costs—a lot! Real love means
sacrificing something of ourselves, some of our own comfort. It means giving ourselves
up like Jesus did.”
What does generation change look like?
In his book, Hunter profiles some of the characteristics of what he believes a generation
of change would look like, including:

          People who love Jesus radically, and who translate that love into real action in
           their own lives and the lives of others.
          People who know that to love Jesus well, you need to know him personally and
           study his ways.
          People who lead humbly by serving.
          People who spend time helping the poor and the oppressed in the world.
          People who invest their influence to help others rather than hoarding it for
          People who prepare well for their future, so they are equipped to bring about

Two a Day?
“About half of the world’s population lives on less than $2 a day (United Nations as
reported in Generation Change). Zach Hunter challenges readers to understand what this
means. Are you ready to take the challenge? For one week, try to live on two dollars per
World Issues Statistics: Generation Change

TINA you can use any or all or none of these depending on
              space. Your choice.

      “Over 42 million people are living with HIV/AIDS, and 74 percent of those
       infected people live in sub-Saharan Africa.” Generation Change

      “Statistics show that 80 percent of the diseases in Africa can be attributed to a
       lack of clean water.” Generation Change

      “Measles, malaria, and diarrhea are three of he biggest killers of children—yet all
       are preventable or treatable.” Generation Change
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Ripening Mangos
Sow Seeds—Plant a Garden in Zambia

Zambian families can’t just run to the grocery store when they need food. Many
Zambians plant small gardens to feed their families. That means that learning how to
garden is an important skill.

Girls in Zambian GEMS Clubs are learning this skill with the Horticulture Badge, found
in the African Badgebook. This badge includes information about gardening as a means
of supplying food for one’s family. You can provide food for families in Zambia by
sending “seed money.” Every $7 you send will be used to purchase five different seed
packets (shipping costs included) that can withstand drought conditions and match soil
types and growing seasons in Africa. The vegetables from these gardens can be used to
feed girls and their families and provide a small income when sold. Consider enclosing a
photo of yourself and a brief note of encouragement using the downloadable gift card on
our website (www.gemsgc.org. Click on the SHINE brightly magazine).

Did you Know?
852 million people in the world are hungry. –Bread for the World Institute as reported in
Generation Change
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No for an Answer
Daphne Dykeman

Could not getting your way lead to something great?
       The cell phone on the table was ringing as Stacy walked in the door.
       “Could you get that?” her mother called. “I want to finish packing this box.”
       Stacy grabbed the phone on her way to the bedroom. “Hello?”
       “Hello. I’m calling from St. John’s Hospital. May I speak with Mrs. Winter?”
       “Just a minute, please,” Stacy said, passing her mother the phone. “It’s the
hospital. Maybe they’ve changed their mind.”
       Stacy stared at the bare walls while her mother said, “Yes,” and “All right,” and
“We’ll be there tomorrow. Goodbye.”
       “Well,” Stacy asked as the phone clicked shut. “Did they say that Grandma could
come home?”
       “Oh, Stacy,” her mom said, giving her shoulders a squeeze. “Nothing’s changed.
Grandma just can’t live in this big house anymore since she broke her hip.”
       “But it’s breaking her heart to have to leave her home. And I’ve been praying
every night that God would make her well enough to come back here.”
       “Stacy, I’m afraid that’s not going to happen.”
       “But can’t God do anything? He could do a miracle for Grandma.”
       “Yes, He could. But God does say no to us sometimes. Have you always gotten
everything you’ve asked for?”
       “Of course not,” Stacy said, fighting back her tears. “Not for silly things, like
wanting school cancelled or getting a special toy for my birthday, but I thought He
always answered the important requests. He helped Dad find a new job, and when Sara
was in a car accident, He helped her get better. Why won’t He do the same thing for
       “I don’t know, Honey. But we have to trust that God always does what’s best for
us, even if we don’t understand why He’s doing it. Remember that He loves your
grandmother even more than we do.”
       Stacy looked up. “So I just stop praying about it?”
       “No, but maybe you need to change your prayer. Since Grandma is going to a
senior’s home, what can you pray for that will help her when she’s there?”
       I can pray that she doesn’t feel homesick,” Stacy said. “And,” she continued,
thinking harder, “I can ask for a way to make her apartment feel more like home.”
       She took a deep breath and let it go, as if she was letting go of her own plans for
her grandmother.
       “Okay,” she said, “let’s get to work.”
       Stacy’s mom handed her a blanket form a pile on the bed. “Let’s sort these first.
Some of them could go to the women’s shelter, but I’m afraid most of them will end up
as rags.”
       Stacy held the blanket up to the light. “Did Grandma make this?” she asked in
       The quilt was made of twelve cream colored squares, and each one was a
miniature garden. The colors had faded, and may of the threads had come undone, but
Stacy couldn’t believe how beautiful the flowers were.
       “Yes. She made that for me the summer before I as born.” Stacy’s mom reached
out and fingered the ragged edges of the quilt. “Well, it’s not good for much now. You
can’t keep memories forever.”
       Her mother started sorting the rest of the blankets, but Stacy kept looking at the
quilt. She ran her fingers over the squares, feeling the holes where little fingers had
pulled out the threads. She tried to imagine her mother bundled up in that quilt, nestled on
her grandmother’s lap. She couldn’t throw it away, even if it was shabby. In fact, one of
the corner squares was still in good condition. Stacy looked at it closely for a moment,
and then an idea burst into her head. She grinned to herself and said a silent, “Thank you,
Lord!” while she tucked the blanket into a bag to take home.
        A week later, Stacy stood before her grandmother’s door. She knocked loudly
then poked her head through the doorway, “Hi, Grandma!” she called out cheerfully. “I
have a present for you!”
        “Oh, how nice of you to come see me,” her grandmother said as Stacy came into
the living room. “But I don’t need any presents. I’ve got too much of my old junk
crammed into this place as it is.”
        Stacy placed a package on her grandmother’s lap. “Open it!” she ordered.
        Her grandmother tore off the paper. “Why, Stacy!” she cried.
        A thin, ruffled pillow lay on her lap. The front of the pillow was the panel from
the old quilt. Stacy had cut it out, tied up the loose threads, and filled in the missing
pieces of the flowers with her own embroidery. Then she had taken a square of matching
cloth, a strip of creamy lace, and some quilt batting and sewn it all together.
        “You did this?” her grandmother exclaimed. “You angel! That blanket was so
special to me, but I didn’t want to bother your mother about it, with all the stuff she had
to take care of. Now I can put it where I’ll always see it and remember those days.
However did you think to make a pillow out of it?”
        Stacy laid her cheek against her grandmother’s soft, wrinkled on and gave her a
squeeze. “Well, Grandma, it happened when I finally decided to take no for an answer.
I’ll make you a cup of tea and then I’ll tell you all about it.”

Did you Know?
A study on kindness showed that kind people experience more happiness and have
happier memories. Simply by counting acts of kindness for one week, people feel happier
and more grateful” –National Institute of Heath as reported in Generation Change
Page 10
Green Team
Will Our Legacy be Garbage?
Rainey Page
Each one of us will leave our mark on God’s beautiful world. It may be in a planted tree,
a story told, or our garbage. That’s right—our garbage. Have you ever thought about how
long your garbage will last on God’s Earth? You know, the stuff you, your family, and
friends toss in the trash.

Test your garbage sense. Draw a line to connect the type of garbage to how long
scientists claim each material can survive.

Paper homework sheet                          5 years
Aluminum Pop can                              100 years
Old Leather shoes                             4 weeks
Plastic milk jug                              forever
Glass juice bottle                            2 years
Styrofoam plate                               500 years
Tin soup can                                  800 years
Wool socks                                    forever
Plastic shopping bag                          50 years
Banana peel                                   1 million years

Much of your garbage can outlive you, whether gathered in a landfill or littered on the
ground. Your garbage is what you will leave behind. Before you throw out a singe piece
or a big bag of trash, think about it. Take time to find out what materials can be recycled.
Before you purchase an item consider how long the item will sit in a landfill. God and all
His creation is counting on you!

Tina, how about small and upside down answers?
Paper: 4 weeks
Aluminum: 80 to 500 years
Leather: Up to 50 years
Plastic container: 1 million years to forever
Glass bottle: 1,000 to 1 million years, and may be unknown
Styrofoam: 1 million years to forever
Tin: 50 to 100 years
Wool: 1 to 5 years
Plastic bag: 10 to 800 years
Fruit peel: 4 weeks to 2 years

The data was collected from the National Park Service and various state government and university websites. These are
all estimate and dependent on conditions. In the answer section, the wide range of estimates collected for each material
is listed.
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Dear Emma

Dear Emma,

I have a friend that my best friend, but lately she has not been so nice. I never talk to her
anymore, but we smile at each other in school. I always wonder what I did. But
sometimes I feel like she hates me and never wants to see me again. I need help please,
please, please, help me!

Dear Upset,
When a relationship with a friend changes suddenly, it can be very confusing. I strongly
encourage you to have your friend over for chat so that you can talk about what is going
on. Ask her why things have changed and let her know how much her actions are
confusing you. Let her know that you miss hanging out and that you want to know if
there is something that you have done to upset her. Explain that you really want to try to
fix whatever has happened because you have been friends for such a long time and you
still really care about your friendship. Don't be angry when you talk, try to be calm and
keep an even tone in your voice. You are not trying to accuse her but instead, you want to
express your feelings about your friendship. In the end, she will either explain how she
feels and the two of you will work out whatever has happened, or the two of you will
need to unfortunately step away from the relationship for awhile.

Before you talk to her, ask God to give you strength and guidance. Trust that He will give
you all that you need in terms of giving you the right words to speak when you talk to her
and the ability to be strong in whatever happens. Be true to you and know that whatever
happens, you did all that you could to make sure that things were okay with someone that
you care about.

Dear Emma,
My dad has a problem with his foot. It is swelled up and he limps a little when he walks.
Because he is in pain he is really grouchy a lot. It seems that his main target is always
me. He gets mad at every little thing I do. It is like no matter what I do I can't please him.
Like on Friday I was helping him put some cut up pieces in his truck. But before we
started putting them in the truck my mom said right in front of him that when she would
take me to the store. My dad got mad and so my mom told me that I should stay and help
unload the truck so I did. But he was so mad that all he did was put the tailgate down on
his truck and let it fall off the back down the small hill that we have in our yard. Then he
left. I went out of my way and stacked it all up nicely by the tree. He didn’t even say
anything and stormed off into his shop. No matter where I go whether it is outside or in
my room I am always his main target.

Please help me so that I know how to talk to him and tell him that is hurts my feelings
when I am the only one that he gets mad at me.
Trying hard to understand girl

Dear Trying Hard to Understand Girl,
I am really sorry to hear about your Dad. My Mom just had surgery on her foot and she is
also in a lot of pain, so I understand what it is like to have a parent that is not well.
Sometimes when people are in constant pain, they just do not know how to handle what
is going on and take it out on others. That could be what is happening with your dad. Try
to understand that he is probably very frustrated that his foot is not okay that he is
constant pain. Although it is not the right way to be treating you, consider that he is not
trying to be mean, but is really struggling with how to deal with the changes in his life.
When he seems to be particularly upset, try praying for him. When you pray, also ask
God for an extra measure of patience and understanding when he gets upset at you. Know
that through all of it, he does love you very much. Even when he doesn't say it, he
probably does appreciate all that you do for him. The other thing that you can do, is to
talk to your Mom about some of your frustrations. Maybe she will be able to talk to your
Dad about how some of his actions are making you feel.


Dear Emma,
I have two girls in my class, I overheard them gossiping about me and other people. They
won't let any other people play with them either. They say and do hurtful things to others.
Some days I find myself becoming upset about it but I am to shy to say anything. I would
like to know how to handle this situation without hurting other people’s feelings.
Please HELP!!!
Needs Advice Immediately

Dear Needs Advice Immediately,
It sounds to me like you are going to need to have an adult get involved with this
situation. I would start by talking to your Mom and then perhaps you can go together to
talk to the teacher about what is happening with these girls. They are going to need to be
spoken to about their behavior and attitudes. With an adult's help, these girls will
hopefully realize that what they are doing is not okay and that it needs to stop.

Through all of this, I encourage you to remain strong. You have done the right thing to
ask for help with this situation. I also encourage you to pray for these girls that they may
realize how hurtful their actions are. Pray that God will work in them so that they will
stop treating people so unkindly and pray for patience as you deal with their gossip and
hurtful behavior. Remember that no matter what they say, that you are an amazing child
of God and are very precious to Him!!!

Dear Emma
I have this treasure box where I keep all my secrets. My friend is always begging me to
show her what’s inside. I know that if I told her, she would tell everyone! Even if she
says she swears she won’t tell. Even though we've been friends over two years now, I still
don’t trust her, because she told my secrets before. What should I do?
Dear Secret,
There is nothing wrong with keeping secrets as long as they are ones that should be kept.
If there are things in that box that are really important to you and you want to keep them
private, there is no reason that you have to show your friend. Just tell her that it is a
private box and that you really need her to respect the fact that the things in there are
special and important to you and that you don't want to share them with anyone. If she
truly cares about you she needs to accept that fact and stop asking you about the box ...
Don't be scared to keep it to yourself.


Dear Emma,
I really like this guy right? But I don’t know if he likes me! I really want to go out with
him, but I’m not really allowed to. But I like him, and what if he does ask me out? What
am I supposed to say?? Please help me!!

Dear Uncertain,
I think that the best thing to do here is to stay friends with all guys for now and not to
worry about this going out thing, especially because you are not allowed to date yet. I
know that there might be a lot of pressure on you to get into the whole dating scene but
there will be lots of time for that when you get older.

If he asks you out, just be honest about the fact that you are not allowed to date right
now. Do not go behind your parents' backs and date without their permission.

In the future when you start dating, you need to bring the relationship to God in prayer
and talk to Him about whether or not the guy you want to go out with is a guy that God
wants you to hang around with. When choosing someone to date, make sure that he is
Christian and shares the same beliefs as you do. Also make sure that you and your
parents have had a talk about the dating guidelines they expect of you so that there is no
confusion about what their thoughts are on the issue. Always remember how important it
is to ask God about who you are dating and make sure that your relationship is founded in
Jan, super curious if you are going to let this one in!!! What do you think?
Dear Emma,
I read this column on how no one can fill your soul but God (not even boys). For the past
year now I've been together with this guy, and I never thought much of it, besides that I
really like him and vice-versa, until last night. We were talking on email until my mom
said I had to get off and do my homework so I said "srry gtg, see ya 2moro bye."
And he went "kk cya later" and then right when I’m about to sign off he goes "I
love you.” I had no idea what to do so I went "love ya too.”
Since reading that column I’ve felt bad. I mean I had strong feelings for this guy, but I
had no idea that he would have that strong of feelings back. I have to admit, I have
thought in my head that I loved him, but I don't think I would have the guts to tell him
just now. But at church today we talked even more and it wasn't even awkward (because
he usually gets really nervous and blushes when he talks to me), like I thought it might.
Was it wrong to say I love you back? I know I'm young but I couldn't lie to him. A
considerable amount of advice is needed!

Confused, but in love

Dear Confused but in love,

Saying I love you for the first time to that special someone is a very big deal and
something that should not be taken lightly. It does sounds to me like the words are
genuine for both you and this guy. It does not sound like you said them flippantly or
without giving them any thought. In fact, I would guess that you have spent a lot of time
thinking about whether or not to say them and have hopefully also prayed about the

You are at an amazing time of life, one that can be a ton of fun but one that can also be
very confusing. I really encourage you to spend some time in prayer and to think about
what you feel God is saying about your relationship. Ask yourself some tough questions:
Have you taken the time to bring your relationship to God? Have you asked God if He
wants you to be dating yet? Have you prayed about whether or not this guy is right for
you? It is really important to be talking to God about your boyfriend and to know if you
are following God's plan or your own. Make sure that you are seeking God's will for your

You should also have a talk with your parents about the dating scene and set some
guidelines that you are all comfortable with. That way, you are all on the same page and
know what the rules are.

Finally, I encourage you to be open and honest with your feelings. These are beautiful
words and if you have put as much thought into them that you have said, then be assured
that it is all right. Enjoy hanging around this guy and continue to keep God as the head
and center of you relationship.


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You Warm My Heart
What you Need:
2 sheets of construction or cardstock paper (8 1/2 x 11)
Scissors or paper cutter
Glue stick
Packet of hot chocolate (.71 oz)
Stickers (optional)
What to Do:
   1. Cut one piece of paper into a rectangle that is 8 inches by 5 inches. The other
          piece of paper should be cut into a rectangle that is 6 inches by 5 inches.
   2. Fold both pieces of paper in half (one paper is now 4 x 5 and the other is 3 x 5).
   3. Cut a heart out of the 3 x 5 piece of paper (see picture). This will become the
       handle of the mug.
   4. Place the middle of the heart along the fold of the 8 x 5 piece of paper. Put a
       staple through the bottom and the top of the heart.
   5. Glue the two sides of the heart together (it should now look like a handle).
   6. Place a thin line of glue on the paper mug along the bottom and the side opposite
       the fold. Press firmly. Allow the glue to dry.
   7. Decorate the paper mug using markers and stickers. Here are a few ideas of what
       you might say:
           You warm my heart!
           Having a friend like you is a toasty treat!
           You’re sweet!
Place the packet of hot chocolate inside the mug. Give it to someone you love!
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Wet Paint
Grade Five
          Judy got up from bed and walked over to the bathroom. “I wish I were pretty! My
hair is getting knotty and my eyes seem dull.”
          She looked at a magazine on the bathroom counter. It showed three beautiful girls
with fancy hair and expensive clothes. “I wish I were one of them,” Judy said jealously.
“I am so jealous!”
          Judy did all her usual morning activities and came down for breakfast with a
frown on her face.
          What’s the matter?” Judy’s mother asked. “Cheer up! It’s Christmas break and
you have no school.”
          She handed Judy a cup of hot chocolate and sat down next to her at the dinner
          “Mom,” Judy answered, “I’m not pretty and I feel so unimportant.” She pointed to
the magazine.
          “If you’re so unimportant, why do you think God put you on earth?”
          Judy thought for a moment. “I don’t know.”
          Her mother answered, “You’ve been put down here for a reason. You many not
know what that reason is, but I assure you that someday you’ll find out. Remember that
you’re one of God’s precious gems and He polishes you with His love! We were all put
down here for a reason. To Him, we’re more precious than crystals, diamonds, emeralds,
or rubies! Sometimes we might think we’re nothing, but we’re worth so much more!”
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The Rock
Sarah Isaacson
          “Here we are,” our leader Kiki said.
          After hiking a winding trail and enjoying the smell of fresh pine trees along the
way, our girls’ club stared upward. A craggy wall made of rough granite stood before us.
The top, our destination, appeared too far away. I gulped and had second throughtsw
about doing this. Kiki talked about how to proceed.
          “As we discussed before,” Kiki said, “I’ll climb first and set the wedges and nuts.
Janna, my trusty assistant, will stay down here and be your belayer. Be first, let’s pray.”
          We made a quick circle and Kiki led. “Heavenly Father, we dedicate this climb to
you. Thank you for giving us strong bodies to do this. Help us to use the lessons and
wisdom we have learned to make good decisions and take courageous steps. In the name
of Jesus.”
          “Amen!” we all said.
          After the prayer, I felt a teensy bit more confident. We each stepped into our
harnesses and pulled them up to our waists. After I had tightened mine and attached my
carabineer, my friend checked me and I checked her, just like we had been taught. We
were ready for the rope.
          We craned our necks to watch Kiki scramble up the rock like a spider, pausing,
and scrambling upward again. Her eleven years of experience showed as she deftly
located the cracks. Occasionally, she dusted her hands with chalk. Then like a tiny doll on
a very tall building, she stood at the top,. She yelled down to us. “Okay, I’m ready when
you are!”
          I wanted the other girls to try it before me, but they were just as inexperienced. I
thought about the lessons we had taken, the hours we had spent practicing our knots and
holds, and how many times we had triumphantly reached the top of the practice wall.
This rock was only taller. I found my hand slowly rising to volunteer. “I’ll do it. I’ll go
        “Great,” Janna said, “and remember, girls have strong legs. That’s the way God
made ya. Use what God gave ya.”
        I threaded the rope through my carabiner and knotted it. After she checked my
work, I grabbed for my first hold and climbed onto the rock. As I stood off the ground, I
breathed deeply and the fresh air encouraged me. I readied for my first hold an Janna
tightened the rope.
        After several easy placements of my hands and feet, I stopped. I had progressed
several feet from the ground. My feet were secure, but I didn’t know where to place my
right hand next.
        “Take your time. It’s okay. I’ve got ya,” Janna said from below me.
        I had made sure to drink plenty of water earlier. Still, my mouth felt
uncomfortably dry. I felt tired. This had to be as far as I was able to go. I let myself
dangle from the taut rope.
        “Grab for the wall again,” Kiki said from above.
        “I can’t,” I yelled up to her. My voice croaked, not revealing my earlier optimism.
I considered having Janna lower me to the ground. I would be easier than continuing.
Then I made the mistake of looking down, way down. “Agh!”
“Calm yourself,” Kiki’s voice carried, “Listen to me. You can’t see what I can from up
here. You’re past the halfway mark. You’re almost here. The hardest part is over. It’ll be
worth it, really!”
        When my body swung closer to the rock, I grabbed the edge of a narrow crevice.
This is what I had spent months practicing. This was my opportunity to put my lessons to
the test. I placed my feet onto the rocky wall. I reached above me. Unable to see my
hand, I felt around blindly until I located a hold. Encouraged, I grunted as I stretched my
legs to my next spot. My muscles burned.
        I advanced hand over hand, and inch by inch. The final ten feet lasted longer than
the first three-fourths of my climb. Occasionally I hear encouragement from above and
voices of friends encouraging me from the ground.
        By the time I reached the top, the climb had become easier. I felt like I could
climb forever. Still, I sighed relief when Kiki helped me past the anchor. A sense of joy
and strength flowed out of me.
       Congratulations, you did great! I knew you could do it,” Kiki said, and hugged
me. Then she knelt to coach the next climber.
       From our lofty position, I stood higher than the treetops. I saw the river like a
piece of thick, silver thread and the distant road that looked like a wavy piece of rope.
The view made everything appear miniature, like Kiki had looked when I was on the
       Waiting for the others at the top of that rock, with a bird’s eye view of the
incredible valley, I prayed. That was new for me. Usually I only prayed when I needed
something, like when we started the climb. But something came out of my mouth,
naturally—a prayer of thanks.
       Thanks God for Your awesome world. I really like it. Thanks for making it for us
to enjoy. Thank you for strong muscles and good balance. Thank you for these sights and
the smell of fresh air. Thanks.

Rock Climbing Glossary
Anchor: The last point that the rope is attached, found at the top of a cliff or rock.
Belay: For safety, a person holds the end of the rope at the bottom of the rock.
Carabiner: Metal rings used as connectors.
Harness: Like a belt and worn by a climber to stay attached to the rope.
Holds: A place on a rock or climbing wall to temporarily cling or stand.
Nuts: Metal attached to a wire loop inserted into cracks in a rock for protection.
Wedges: A tapered piece of metal inserted into cracks in a rock for protection.
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Reflecting Light
February’s Reading:
Luke 14- Luke 22

Luke 15:8-10
I really like this parable. It is about a woman who has ten coins. She loses one coin and
she searches all over to find it. When she finds it she is so happy and calls all of her

Sometimes I feel like I am just one little person and there is no way I could really matter
to God. But this parable says that God rejoices when someone comes to him just like the
woman who lost and found the coin. I thought that was cool.
Daphne, age 12

Luke 18:35-42
There was this blind beggar and he called out to Jesus and wanted Jesus to heal him. And
Jesus stopped what He was doing and healed him! I’ve been reading through the Gospels
this year and it is like every time someone asks Jesus for help, He always stops to help.
You’d think Jesus would be too busy, but He totally cares. It makes me think that if I call
out to Jesus for help that He will care about me too. It also makes me think that I should
take the time to be like Jesus and help other people.
Kaitlyn, age 13
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Life Lesson Sixteen
Be the Change
World Changers:
In history class Zach Hunter learned about Harriet Tubman, a former slave who went on
to help free other slaves. Zach told his mom, “Man, if I had lived back then, I would have
fought for equality, and against slavery.”

“Slavery is still going on throughout the world in many ways, shapes, and forms,” his
mom said. Zach was shocked. He asked his mom to help him find out more. He learned
that most slavery revolves around money or lack of it. Zach said, “Whole families get
into medical dept and have to work in a brickyard until they die. Some kids are forced to
roll cigarettes all day long.”

Zach knew change was needed! When he was twelve he started a campaign called Loose
Change to Loosen Chains (LC2LC) because he felt a need to do something to bring
freedom to the victims he was learning about. Today, Zach is educating people about
slavery, collecting nickels, dimes, and quarters, and giving the money to organizations
that are preventing enslavement and rescuing slave victims. Zach encourages all the
students he meets to put their energy toward things that really matter and together needed
changes will come to today’s world!
Walking Requirements
And if you spend yourselves in behalf of the hungry and satisfy the needs of the
oppressed, then your light will rise in darkness, and your night will become like noonday.
Isaiah 58:10
    1. Who does this verse tell you to spend yourself on?
    2. How can you help these people?
    3. What happens when we spend ourselves on behalf of these people?
My Choice:
What injustice are you passionate about? You have the choice to A) Be the change. B)
Ignore the need. C) Wait until you are older to make a difference. What choice will you
make? Explain.
Get Walking:
Be the change! List two ways you can help someone (or a people group) in need. Do one
of the two things you listed.

Life Lesson Seventeen
Outrageous Mercy!
World Changers
Born in Zambia, Given Kachepa was in elementary school when both of his parents died.
He was alone and like many other orphans he became prey to slave owners. When he
finished seventh grade, Given was tricked into slavery.

A ministry called TTT announced that is was supporting a Zambian Boys Choir tour.
Given was one of the twelve boys who made the choir. They practiced for two years as a
group and then performed in American churches. The boys were promised that the money
earned from singing would go toward building schools in Zambia! They were also
promised other gifts like clothes and an education. Sadly none of these promises were
kept and the boys were treated poorly. The boys didn’t go home because to do so would
bring disgrace to their families. Finally, a government agency saw the awful things the
boys were experiencing and stepped in to help.

Today, Given is no longer a slave and lives with an American family. He’s changing the
world through his smile and attitude. He could have chosen to be bitter and angry with
God and his oppressors. Instead, he’s chosen to forgive and rejoice in the outrageous
mercy God showed him!
Walking Requirements:
Shouldn’t you have had mercy on your fellow servant just as I had on you? Matthew
18:33. Read Matthew 18:21-35
   1. In this parable whom does the King represent and whom do the servants
   2. What does it mean to have mercy?
   3. Personalize Matthew 18:33 and answer the question. Shouldn’t ________(your
       name) have mercy on ___________(someone you need to love or forgive) just
       like God had mercy on__________(your name)?

My Choice:
How willing are you to show mercy to others? A) Depends on the person. B) Depends on
my mood. C) Depends on my willingness to love the way God wants me to. Will you
choose to always show others God’s mercy? If so, how? If not, why?
Get Walking!
Think about someone who has wronged you. List two ways you can show outrageous
mercy to this person. Do one of the two things you listed this week.

Life Lesson Eighteen
Practicing self-forgetfulness
World Changers:
During Stephanie’s senior year in high school she wanted to make a difference in the
lives of the disabled. She signed up to be a Friendship Ministries teacher. Through
teaching she could share God’s love with people who have cognitive impairments.

Before the first meeting, Stephanie felt sick, “My stomach was turning. I was so
nervous,” Stephanie said. “I didn’t know what to say, I didn’t know anyone, and no one
my age was teaching.” Stephanie humbly asked Jesus to help her.

“I opened the front door of the church and there was a student,” Stephanie said. “He gave
me a hug and said, ‘My name is Donald, what’s your name?’” Next she met her student,
Kathy. “Kathy is hilarious!” Stephanie said. “She gave me a hug, grabbed my hand, and
introduced me to all her friends.” The highlight of Friendship night is singing with the
students. She said, “Their enthusiasm and passion is unbelievable!”

Stephanie forgot herself and her worries when she chose to humbly focus on Jesus.
“When I said yes to serving Jesus, I was embraced by precious people who freely give
love to Jesus, each other, and to me. I love being their teacher and friend!”
Walking Requirements:
Therefore, as God’s chosen people, holy and dearly loved, clothe yourself with
compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience. Colossians 3:12
   1. What “clothing” does Jesus want us to wear?
   2. List the opposites of the “clothing” listed in this verse.
   3. How do we wear Jesus’ “clothing”?

My Choice:
What’s the hardest part of being self-forgetful? A) I like it when everyone focuses on my
needs. B) I like to have my way. C) I love to feel important. Will you choose to make
much of Jesus instead of much of yourself? If so, how? If not, why?
Get Walking!
List two ways you can give Jesus the place of importance He deserves in your life. Do
one of the two things listed this week.

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