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					   THE MAGIC OF MAKING UP SYSTEM
HOW TO STOP BREAK UP OR LOVERS REJECTION, EVEN IF SITUATION SEEMS HOPELESS




                           Justin Dudley



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THE MAGIC OF MAKING UP
                               System
                                    relationship rescue service? Are
The Magic of                        there warning signs that not all
                                    is well in your love life?
Making Up
How to Stop Break Up, Divorce         Saving A Relationship-Rough
or Lovers Rejection, even if          Times Only Tell The Truth
situation seems hopeless.
                                    Do you remember how happy
Introduction                        you were when the two of you
                                    first fell in love? You started
In this report you will discover:   things off on the right foot, and
                                    you were so in love that seemed
  End Of Relationship Breakup       as though nothing could ever get
  Signals-Tips To Prevent A         in the way of your being
  Breakup                           together.

In a perfect world, two people        Stages Of Breaking Up-Despite
would fall in love and stay           Your Efforts You Must Move
together for the rest of their        Forward
lives. But we live in the real
world where couples split apart     Despite your best efforts, you
far too often.                      are now on the bad side of a
                                    breakup. It doesn't matter how
  Do You Need A Relationship        friendly it was, or whether or not
  Rescue Service?                   you knew it was about to
                                    happen, there will still be a
Are you wondering if you need a     process to go through.




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  Relationship Help - What You     when it happens. Just about
  Must Know                        every breakup signal is related to
                                   your partner's behavior.
You have to be constantly on
guard if you want your            If your partner changes the way
relationship to stay strong.      they communicate with you,
However, no matter how vigilant   then it's a sign that something is
you are, your relationship won't  going on. Do they talk to you a
be perfect                        lot less? A lot more? Are they
                                  using more abusive language?
                                  More romantic language?
                                  Changes in communication
                                  could be a sign of anything, but
End Of Relationship Breakup       they can also be a sign that a
Signals-Tips To Prevent A Breakup breakup is just around the
                                  corner.
In a perfect world, two people
would fall in love and stay       There is a group of behaviors
together for the rest of their    known as emotional distancing.
lives. But we live in the real    These are any behaviors that
world where couples split apart   break the emotional bond the
far too often. However, if you    two of you once had. Sometimes
were able to recognize some key you will see it in their eyes;
end of relationship breakup       sometimes it will be a change in
signals, then you may be able to the tone of their voice;
prevent a breakup from            sometimes you feel it when you
happening.                        touch them. It's one of those
                                  things that is hard to explain,
The first thing you need to do is but you will know it when you
have a baseline understanding     see it. As far as end of
of your partner. In other words,  relationship breakup signals go,
you need to know what their       emotional distancing should be
normal behavior is so you will be your cue to immediately take
able to identify strange behavior action to work on making things




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better.                            in a calm and respectful way,
                                   and have a heartfelt discussion.
Odd behavior is another warning
sign. This can happen in           You may ultimately find that
countless ways, so you need to     nothing is wrong. Of course
stay alert. For example, if they   there is always a chance that the
seem to be making major            end of relationship breakup
excuses for minor things, that's   signals were accurate, and
not normal. On the other hand,     things are now coming to an
it may be something that you       end. It may not be pleasant, but
can't quite specify, but you       at least you will know and will
should trust your gut if things    be able to move on with your
seem off.                          life.

One of the hardest signals to
notice is when your partner        Do You Need A Relationship
starts to be more romantic than    Rescue Service
they ever have before. It's easy
to assume that they are just       Are you wondering if you need a
being more loving, and besides,    relationship rescue service? Are
it feels good. However, there is   there warning signs that not all
also a chance that they are        is well in your love life? Perhaps
compensating for their own         your partner is being evasive or
guilt.                             non attentive? Perhaps they are
                                   busier than normal and not
To be fair, these breakup signals available to go on dates if you
are not absolute signs of trouble. are not yet married or come
There could be other logical       home early if you are? When you
explanations for their behavior,   are with them, do you get the
so don't assume the worst. If you feeling they would rather be
see any of these signals, then     anywhere else?
you should use them as the
basis of a conversation with your Before you panic there could be
partner. Express your concerns     a million reasons why your




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partner has gone a little cold on   If you suspect there is an issue
you. He or she could be worried     in your partnership you need to
about their job, money or a         deal with it as soon as possible.
health issue. They could have a     Ask your partner to meet you for
friend going through a rough        a drink or a meal on neutral
patch and be trying to help         territory. If you have kids get
them. It doesn't mean,              someone to babysit as this is
necessarily, that they don't love   important. Meeting on neutral
you.                                ground means you are more
                                    likely to have a reasonable
In his book, The Magic Of           discussion than a full blown
Making Up, T 'Dub' Jackson          argument.
talks about being able to
communicate properly. This is     Don't attack him or her or
one area that can be improved     accuse them of anything. Simply
in almost all relationships. Did  talk about how you are feeling in
you know that most couples        general terms trying very hard to
break up not because of           keep any blame out of the
infidelity but because of a lack  equation. Give them a chance to
of communication. They simply     talk and explain their feelings.
can't or won't talk to one        Even if it is your relationship
another.                          that needs rescuing, they may
                                  be very grateful that you have
The problem is that if you do not brought the issue out into the
chat openly about your concerns open.
or worries about your
relationship, seeds of doubt are Most of the time secrets are not
grown and suddenly these seeds good for relationships. The
become huge bushes. While they people who have been together
were seeds, they would have       for forty years will tell you that it
been relatively easy to work out  takes hard work, mutual trust
but now they have grown out of    and respect to keep love alive.
proportion, they become a lot     By trying to keep the lines of
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you as a couple, you go some        right now, but the fact that you
way towards developing the trust    are reading this proves that
and respect that you need to        there is still hope. Sometimes
survive.                            hope is all you have, but at least
                                    it's something that you can hold
Stop second guessing yourself       onto as you move forward. The
today and take some action. You     good news is that you are going
and only you can resolve this       to have a plan that increases the
and it won't happen by putting      likelihood of saving your
your head in the sand. Get a        relationship.
copy of the magic of making up,
read it and then speak to your      Step 1 - Calm down. It's all too
partner. Only by taking action      easy to get frazzled when you
can you prevent a relationship      think your relationship is on the
rescue service being required.      brink of disintegrating, but you
                                    need to keep your cool.
Saving A Relationship-Rough         Emotions can run pretty high
Times Only Tell The Truth           when things aren't going well,
                                    and that can lead to making
Do you remember how happy           decisions that you will only
you were when the two of you        regret later. Practice meditation,
first fell in love? You started     prayer, and other stress-relief
things off on the right foot, and   techniques to get some level of
you were so in love that seemed     normality in your life.
as though nothing could ever get
in the way of your being            Step 2 - Take stock. Hey, maybe
together. Then time passed and      things really aren't as bad as you
reality set in. Now you find        think they are. Maybe they're
yourself reading about saving a     worse. Now that you have
relationship.                       calmed down, you can take a
                                    logical look at the true state of
Relax.                              your relationship. Ask yourself
                                    what concrete evidence you have
Things may seem pretty rough        of trouble, and what trouble may




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only be imagined.                     idea. They will be able to look at
                                      your relationship objectively,
Step 3 - Dig deep. You have to        and then make
get to the bottom of your             recommendations that are based
problems if you are serious           on you and your partner's
about saving a relationship. The      particular needs.
reason you need to do some
digging is that it is easy to         No matter what happens when
confuse symptoms for causes.          saving a relationship, remember
Arguing, for example, is rarely a     that there is always hope.
cause of your problems; it's a        Following the five steps listed
symptom of something else.            above will help you to make
Getting down to all of those          things better, and to stay
"something elses" can be painful      together. It may take some work,
and time-consuming, but you           but the best things in life
need to trust that it will be worth   usually do.
it in the long run.
                                      Stages Of Breaking Up-Despite
Step 4 - Talk it over. Talking to     Your Efforts You Must Move
each other about all of the           Forward
things you are working on is a
positive step. It will show your      Despite your best efforts, you
partner that you care about           are now on the bad side of a
staying together. It also has the     breakup. It doesn't matter how
benefit of getting the two of you     friendly it was, or whether or not
talking about something that has      you knew it was about to
a positive expectation, which         happen, there will still be a
can rekindle the good feelings        process to go through. Knowing
you once had for each other.          the 4 stages of breaking up will
                                      help increase your awareness of
Step 5 - Get help. You and your       what's going on, and hopefully
partner can only do so much on        help you to get through this
your own. Getting help from a         difficult time. There will be
relationship counselor is a good      times when it's not easy to cope,




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but rest assured that you will      there is some form of denial
eventually move through all 4       going on. The tricky thing is that
stages.                             denial can seem comforting, but
                                    it actually prevents you from
Stage 1 of Breaking Up - Shock      moving forward. You feel like
                                    things aren't so bad (or getting
This is what will come over you     better), but the truth is that you
right away. Even if you had a       are stuck in the past.
strong feeling it was about to
happen, the finality of it can      Stage 3 of Breaking Up -
cause a state of emotional          Depression
shock. This shock is normal, but
it can become a problem if it    The shock has worn off and you
paralyzes you in some way. For   are starting to see things as they
example, if you have a hard time are. It's good that you're
talking to people because you    progressing through the 4 stages
can't concentrate, or if you callof breaking up, but now you're
in sick to work because you      feeling depressed. This is
don't know what to do, then you  normal, but it can sometimes
need to what you can to snap     progress into clinical depression.
out of your shock.               If that's the case, then you
                                 should seek treatment from a
Stage 2 of Breaking Up - Denial qualified medical professional as
                                 soon as possible. Other than
Pretending like the breakup      that, feeling sad after a breakup
didn't happen would be a classic is par for the course. Remind
case of denial, but it can be    yourself that this stage is only
more subtle than that. You are   temporary, and that brighter
in denial any time you are not   days are coming soon.
accepting the truth of the
situation. If you are thinking   Stage 4 of Breaking Up -
that things weren't really that  Acceptance
bad, or that the breakup was all
your fault, then you can be sure Shock, denial, and depression




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aren't anybody's idea of a good       Another reason to get help for
time, but they are only the initial   your relationship is that it will
stages. Once you get beyond           wither away if it doesn't
those stages, you will move into      continuously grow. In other
acceptance. It may sound odd,         words, trying to keep things
but some people are afraid of         exactly as they are is the same
accepting what has happened           as going backwards. Okay, so
because they feel it finalizes the    you understand the need for
breakup. But if the breakup has       growth, but where do you go to
already happened, then the            get help for your relationship?
acceptance (or non-acceptance)
of it doesn't matter one way or       The first place you need to go to
the other. The acceptance stage       is the mirror. That's right, you
is the best because it allows you     need to take a good look at
to carry on with your life. You       yourself and what you are
may still miss your ex, and you       contributing to the relationship.
may even work things out, but         At the same time, you need to
being honest about the situation      try to be objective about the
is the last, and the best, of the     areas in which you fall short.
4 stages of breaking up.              What role do you play in the
                                      relationship? What are you doing
Relationship Help - What You          to make it better? Where can
Must Know                             you improve? Do you love your
                                      partner? What are you willing to
You have to be constantly on          do to help your relationship?
guard if you want your
relationship to stay strong.          Look to your past and see how it
However, no matter how vigilant       could be affecting your present.
you are, your relationship won't      For example, you may have a
be perfect--some may be less          hard time trusting your current
perfect than others, but all of       partner if you have been lied to
them can benefit from                 by a previous one. It can be very
relationship help.                    difficult to let go of your
                                      negative past, but you must find




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a way to do it if you want to have   your relationship. If this is the
a positive future. It's going to     case, them it's time to get help
take commitment and effort, but      from other sources. Family,
you will feel one hundred times      friends, books, articles,
better as your present situation     websites, clergy, and
continually improves.                relationship counselors are all
                                     there to help you have a better
Once you have taken care of          relationship. However, you need
yourself, it's time to take a look   to take an extra step and ask
at your partner. Be careful here!    yourself what makes any
You have to keep in mind that        particular source qualified to
the only person you can change       give you relationship help. Once
is yourself, so don't assume that    you find a few trusted sources,
you can command your partner         be sure to actually follow
to do whatever you want. That        through on the advice that they
being said, you can certainly do     give. After all, the advice only
things that influence their          counts if you actually put it to
behavior for the better.             use.

Talk to your partner about your      Wrapping up
relationship, being sure to cover
the weak points as well as the       In this report I have shown you
strong. Be honest, open, and         how to:
respectful. Your goal is to have a
better relationship, and not to        End Of Relationship Breakup
get angry or argue. Identify           Signals-Tips To Prevent A
problems and work on finding           Breakup
solutions that both of you like.
At the same time, take time to      In a perfect world, two people
focus on the positive and then      would fall in love and stay
build on it.                        together for the rest of their
                                    lives. But we live in the real
All of this is a good start but you world where couples split apart
may still need more help for        far too often.




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  Do You Need A Relationship         You have to be constantly on
  Rescue Service?                    guard if you want your
                                     relationship to stay strong.
Are you wondering if you need a      However, no matter how vigilant
relationship rescue service? Are     you are, your relationship won't
there warning signs that not all     be perfect
is well in your love life?
                                     SPECIAL REPORT:
  Saving A Relationship-Rough
  Times Only Tell The Truth
                                     Is it possible to get your
Do you remember how happy            ex back even if your
you were when the two of you
first fell in love? You started
                                     situation seems
things off on the right foot, and    hopeless ?
you were so in love that seemed
as though nothing could ever get
in the way of your being
together.                         According to T. Dub, owner of
                                  the popular website The Magic
   Stages Of Breaking Up-Despite  Of Making Up, the answer is
   Your Efforts You Must Move     yes!
   Forward

Despite your best efforts, you       Why most people struggle ?
are now on the bad side of a
breakup. It doesn't matter how       According to T. Dub, there's a
friendly it was, or whether or not   reason why so many people
you knew it was about to             struggle with saving their
happen, there will still be a        relationships despite so much
process to go through.               help being offered to them
                                     today...
  Relationship Help - What You
  Must Know                          "See, I have spent hours looking at what is
                                     available…and some of it is tepidly okay…but




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you don't get the WHOLE PICTURE…and               reason…infidelity, plain old lost passion, loss
reading an article or two without really          of interest, a stolen heart and worse...even
understanding what you are doing…can really       the worst situations you can imagine…like
hurt your chances rather than improve them.       men serving prison sentences have salvaged
What about the other "Get Your Ex Back"           their relationships. Yes, even Ex-cons have
books? Okay…here's what nearly every one of       got back together with girlfriends and wives
them tell you in just a different way… 'Do not    after being away for years!”.
contact your ex for 30 days…and during that
30 days work on yourself.' THAT'S IT!... Can
you believe it? …that is what they tell you to    There are many success stories
do for EVERY situation! Some take 50 pages
to say it…some take less…and some give a
                                                  that you can read on his
little more okay advice, but in my opinion        website, The Magic Of Making
they do not give you the tools you really         Up that should, at the very least,
need!"
                                                  inspire you to give it a try too.

                                                  To learn more about T. Dub's
How T. Dub conquered the                          solution, and his story, along
relationship niche with a unique                  with dozens of other stories from
approach                                          people that have tried this
                                                  solution, visit The Magic Of
I have put my years of experience…into a
really easy to follow… love recipe for "getting   Making Up.
back together"…and again I forewarn you
right now…these are techniques and
strategies that are NOT conventional
wisdom…and I doubt you have ever read or
heard these techniques before.…and I'll tell
you… this stuff works!...maybe too well?     ,
T. Dub tells us.                                  What others are saying?
T. Dub focuses on the unique                      "Just wanted to thank you and let you know
approach of getting your ex                       how much you have helped me. I followed the
back, to regain control of your                                           -
                                                  guide after a very bitter breakup"

love and life.                                    Denise Click here to read the
                                                  full review

                                                  "Just wanted to say thank you soooooooooo
Is it worth it?                                   much for the amazing advice in your book the
                                                  magic of making up. Yesterday was that all
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                                   "...just an email to say thanks for all the
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                                   proposed"
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                                   "Just wanted to say THANKS!! Me and my ex
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                                   are talking now"
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                                   "I have good news, my ex did get back with
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                                   "I am beside myself that something actually
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