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Should the Dad Attend the Birth of His Baby?

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Would most moms rather have the dad at the birth of their baby or would they rather have another woman with
her? Sorry dads!


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Not so long ago a dad-to-be would pace up and down outside the labor room and would be admitted only after the
birth. Modern practice is to assume the dad-to-be should be at the birth to offer support. But an increasing
number of dads, moms and midwives would prefer he stayed outside...Some of the reasons given are::• • Some moms
feel the loss of dignity and 'not feeling attractive' is sufficient reason to banish their partners
to the
corridor..• • Some dads think the sight of baby being born will put them off sex with their partner
in the Others can't bear to see their partner in pain...Researchers at the University of Toronto suggest
that have a happier childbirth if they are supported by a trained woman rather than a stressed father-to-be.
This woman could be your mother, a friend who's had a baby of her own or a doula (a professional female birth
partner); her presence can have a calming effect on the mom-to-be...Most men, however, do want to be present
and, after all, the baby is half theirs. Get it right and the man's help can prove to be invaluable and
couples find it is an incredibly bonding experience...Advice For Dads::Go to the pre-natal classes and learn
all you can about the birth, what the mom goes through, and how you can help...Your only concern is your
partner and the baby. You are there solely for them, and to help them in any way you can. It is difficult
finding words of encouragement and it will feel as though your presence is not helping or appreciated - but
is...You may see a side of your partner you've never seen before. She may shout at you, even swear at you.
Take it, go with the flow, bite your tongue. If you were going through what she's going through you would
probably be as bad if not worse! No, delete the 'probably'!

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