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					How To Write Great Personal Ad Headlines
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                          www.aLoveLinksPlus.com Dating Advice & Reviews
                          Author: Robert Lee




                          Find Love Online!

                          Attract that special someone
                          with a funny and attention
                          getting headline!


Start reading now and in one hour you'll be
posting such attention getting headlines
that you'll actually have to not reply to some
of the messages you've received because
you already have too many dates!




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Online dating services are now the most popular method for singles to
meet.

But to actually be able to have someone see your profile and write to you is
much harder than you might think. Or, more likely, you already know!


This is where the great attention-getting personal ad headline is required.

You just must stand out from the other thousands of personals ads to be
noticed at first glance. As your next date or perfect match browses through
hundreds of online profiles two things will catch their eye:

           1. Your headline, and;
           2. Your photo

You could be the ugliest duckling ever but if your headline exposes your
fun personality, your friendliness and openness to meeting new people,
highlights your ability to infectiously have fun anywhere, that you are
always ready for adventure – you get the idea – your personal ad will get
the attention you seek and your inbox will be overflowing with messages
from people that want to meet you!

Don't be mistaken:
Your headline IS your first impression!
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The goal of this ebook is to not only expose you to many samples of
personal ad headlines but to also give you some critical insight into making
these headlines, and headlines you'll creatively come up with on your own,
work best for you.

Finding the right words for your headline can be the hardest thing to do
when so much of your future is dependent on what you are ready to say to
a complete stranger, but your visible words are what will attract your ideal
match.

Sometimes it's best to complete your profile and come back to edit your
headline to something catchy, repeating a phrase that you could say
“Headlines” the personal information you share. I'll leave that up to you to
decide.

Headline Samples and *My Comments

Let's start with some examples of real personal ad headlines I recently
found online and discuss the first impressions they gave me.

Women's Good Profile Headlines
   * And My comments

Passionate Soul Seeks Mate
* There has to be a good explanation of her passion to back up this
headline, but it does create some curiosity, doesn't it?

Looking for a Sincere Guy to Make Me Laugh, etc.
* Getting to the point and creating a ready-made response from anyone
that answers this ad is a great idea. Ready to share any jokes guys?

The anticipation is often as much fun as the gift
*You just have to wonder what the gift is that creates the anticipation. This
headline could be very bad, be sure to add additional information as to

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what type of gift you are talking about, but it definitely works to create
responses from guys.

Catch me if you can....
* A good standard opener asking for a playful response. Back this headline
up with asking the guy to describe the type of race you mean. Serene
Yogini

Looking for the Real Deal
* Ready for the guy to prove themselves to your own personal
commitment? This is the type of headline to use. Can be changed to fit any
particular lifestyle attribute you deem most important or fun to share with
someone.

Searching for something real
* Get right to the point and keep the creeps away. Any guy that can step up
to me........ * Dare the guy to prove himself. This headline can be good or
very bad, be sure to complete the sentence in the first paragraph of your
profile to make headline work.

Carpe Diem!
* Fun-loving and ready for adventure! You are out there * Here is a lady
that isn't done looking. She's open to responses and is ready to keep
communication open and not turn down guys unless they prove themselves
to be asses. 3


Men's Good Profile Headlines
* My comments

Looking to the future, Embracing the past
* Inspired and insightful. Maybe this guy has a few mistakes he's willing to
share, life's little adventures that make him an experienced and able man
to date.

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Always a smile
* The friendly type shows through this headline. I hope the rest of his profile
is equally cheery or he's just wasted a nice headline!

Don't Be Afraid To Say Hello!
* Say hi to this guy, he promises to reply with funny, witty and honest
messages.

Everyday is an adventure
* And this guy wants to start an adventure with you. He'd better be
prepared to explain his adventurous plans in the first couple of paragraphs
of his profile to make this headline work.

Good guy seeks sweet gal
* You know you're that sweet girl, go ahead, take a closer look at his profile
and send him a message.

Press here...
* Or “click here” will equally get her attention. Simple, yet directly asking for
action on the browser's part.

Very good. I'm Cooking
* A nice play on words, this headline needs to be investigated more fully. I
really hope this guy likes to cook for his dates because if it's just an odd
way to say “I'm Hot!”, then he's a loser!

Chivalry is not dead...
* The prince has continued his search for his princess online. Te knight in
shining armor is looking for his match.

The 3 S's....Single, Sexual, Sensational…
* I choose this headline as an example of “3 of” anything will get attention.
“The 3 R‟s … Ripped, Rich and Ready” and “The 3 C‟s … Cute, Clean and
Conversational”. You get the idea, “3 of” anything.

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Women's Bad Profile Headlines
* My comments

Just seeing what I will find
* This headline screams that you're not going to reply, that she isn't trying
online dating seriously. Why would you waste your time responding to this?

Italian Princess
* Well, she certainly knows who she is, are you ready to introduce her to
your friends?

I Need A Soulmate
* Also often seen as the “Still single after all these years” desperation
personal ad.

Lonely gerl
* And likely to stay that way bcaze u cantt spel.

Hi
* Well, she's certainly a talker, hey guys? Can't wait to read all that white
space in her replies to my messages, right?

Looking for Mr Right
* As opposed to all the other women's ads that are just looking for Mr. Right
Now, eh? If she selects you to be Mr. Right, figure on meeting mom on the
second date, or first date of you trade more than 3 messages.

Seeking my missing link
* So is the loser of the anthropology department?




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Looking for some excitement
* Of course you are, my dear. All the guys in your neighborhood are
running scared after meeting you so you've taken your freak show online.
Good for you, expanding your horizons. Bad for the guys that haven't had
their shots recently.
Where is my real man?
* He's hiding under all the plastic anatomy pieces that are in your
nightstand, if you get my meaning. This lady has either given up looking or
is about to. Don't become her stalker target!

I need a man in my life
* Because I don't own a ladder… or know who to pump gas into my car…
or a thousand other sexist things that come to mind. This girl's better off
getting the yellow pages out and looking under 'contractors' than trying to
entice a man to contact her online.




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Men's Bad Profile Headlines
* My comments

Hurt scorpio, looking for a nice girl
* Do you think this guy works in an airport? Is he a baggage handler? This
headline is going nowhere fast!

Still here waiting for mine
* Still here? How long have you been trying this dating thing? Run girls,
run! And what are you waiting for? What's mine? Ugh…. Expect the awful
with this one.

What goes around comes around
* Means: break up with me and I'll hunt you forever. Or something like that.
Just plain bad for a headline.

Does love still exist?
* Not very hopeful, is he. Of course you could try to prove that love exists
but what would be the point. How depressing.

To Love and Cherish
* Marriage offer on the third date, are you ready?

Trustworthy and funny too.......
* Honest. Really. All my friends say so. The betting window has now
closed.

Looking for a special person
* Aren't we all. You could be much more specific to give the girls a chance.
Of course there's always….

Cool greaser
* Being a little too specific. Searching for Normalcy *Is he looking for a
normal person to share his life with or to regain his own sanity. Don't waste
your time finding out ladies.

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What do you say we give it a try?
* What do you say we don't. Go back to shooting fish in a barrel dude, you'll
have better luck.




Wow, was that fun or what?

I tell you, I had fun with those comments. Unluckily for me I also viewed
some of the profiles that went along with these headlines and let me tell
you, the bad were really bad.

Profiles incomplete.

Badly taken, dark or non-existent pictures. If you're serious about finding a
compatible person you just have to complete the profile as much as you're
comfortable with, not leaving easy questions blank and essay questions
about yourself and your desired match blank or with almost no direct
information.

The good were very good however.

Nice photos with their profiles. All the questions were answered or at least
left with an “Ask me personally” remark if the person didn't want to share
the asked for information with everyone.

How much a person's online profile is completed is an obvious yardstick to
how committed they are to making online dating a successful way to meet
people to date.

It's so important I'm going to repeat that last line:
How much a person’s online profile is completed is an obvious yardstick to
how committed they are to making online dating a successful way to meet
people to date.

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Making Your Headline Great

Now that we've gotten our toes wet let's start discussing what it takes to
make a great personal ad headline:

1. Personality

2. Humor

3. Originality

4. Friendliness

Easy enough isn't it?

Once someone spells it out for you, it's simple enough to understand, right?
Sure, and that's why lawyers have such a great reputation for being 'plain-
speak' friendly (notice the sarcastic tone there?).

So I'm going to break it all down for you, pay attention.




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Personality

Well, since you now know that your personal ad headline is your
opportunity to make that all important first impression on someone that
you're interested in it goes to follow that your headline should reveal a little
of your personality, right?

You have a personality right?

This is the things you like, what you dislike and how you react to life's big
and little events that define you as a person.

These actions and reactions are what make you different from anyone else
and your personality is what people see, your personality dictates
instinctively how people interact with you and it is how they define you.

If the words you use for your headline isn't something you'd say to a
stranger to break the ice or to continue a conversation with someone
you've just met, you need to make changes to it.

Those five or ten words are the whole conversation, but remember, you just
don't know who you're talking to because you can't see them or contact
them until they send you a message.




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Humor

 Some of the most successful headlines I've read have been the first few
words of a joke or a riddle that leads someone to look at your profile to get
the complete story.

You can use their curiosity to gain their attention with a humorous headline.
Your humor headline doesn't have to be a joke or riddle either, it can be a
funny incident that happened to you, a humorous anecdote that you'd like
to share, anything at all, as long as the person you'd like to attract will find it
funny as well.

Five to ten words isn't much space to get the whole of what you're saying
spelled out, so you have a better chance that if what you write is funny and
intriguing enough you'll not only have people reading your headline but
they will also click into your profile and you'll have a better chance of them
sending you a wink, a smile, or a complete message (depending on the
dating service's options).




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Originality

This is where I tell you to check out your dating competition.

Hey, if you're in business you know what the store across the street sells,
and how much they charge, right? Otherwise you'd be out of business in a
couple of months.

Well, in the online dating world you have no control if your personal ad is
placed at number 1, number 57 or number 334,520. (Of course there are
exceptions: generally if you include a photo or are a paid member your
profile shows before any free trial member but that varies according to the
service.)

You can be proactive and be sure that, when someone does a search
based on your basic information of age, location, career, religion and other
profile questions that are required to be answered, your personal ad
headline stands out from the other results.

Don't be afraid to make the searches.

Hey, maybe even get a friend to join and try to find your profile by
searching for things they know about you that you've put in your profile.

Once you've been found in the member search results you'll have a good
idea of what any other member will see, so you can take a look and see if
your original headline stands out from the others.




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Friendliness

When all else fails –

OK, so your personality turns people off when you first meet them.

Your sense of humor needs a little adjustment.

And your style of originality is, well, unoriginal.

You need to show off the friendly person you really are. And yes, you can
do this!

After all, it's the people you meet, the ones that you can actually
communicate with, that start as friends and turn into lovers.

And being friendly encourages people to want to meet you!

So use your headline to say “Hello from…”. Don't be afraid to say that you
“Have a gerbil named Fred” or that “Online dating is fun for both of us”.

You get the general idea, right?




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Ask A Friend For Creative Help

 One of the best ways to get help with creating several different personal ad
headlines is to talk it out with a friend.

Invite a friend over or arrange some time together for your friend to give
you some help in this area or exploration.

After all, you're single and trying to find dates, I'm sure your friends are
willing to help you out, maybe they've even been setting you up with their
loser friends on crappy dates, so now they owe you some real help time.

Ask for their help in creating the ultimate headline for you to use in your
online dating profiles (you have more than one service you're using, right?).

(I find that overstating your goals to your friends sometimes aids in getting
them to help you on a more personal level.)

Head on out to a bar, early so as to not be distracted, or invite a friend over
and open up your bar for a couple of drinks.

Pour a drink, then: Create a list of the worse pickup lines you've ever heard
(or tried!). Hey, you have to start somewhere, right?

Pour another drink, then:

Move on to write a list of things that you like about yourself and another list
of things that your friend likes about you (on a platonic level).

Now, start rearranging the words on the 3 lists you have, aiming for an
even balance with the words that describe yourself and the words that you
find funny, keeping in mind that the person you're talking to in these 5 to 10
words has never met you but you want to meet them. You really, really
want to meet them!


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Keep Your Profile Headline Current

The biggest mistake people make when placing a personal ad on the
internet is a problem that does not happen when placing the same type of
ad in a newspaper: Staying current.

If you take out a calendar and look at each month, you'll see (on most
calendars, work with me here) holidays marked on days they occur.

Weird, eh? Finding out that holidays happen? Yeah, I know, you're not that
dense.

But have you looked at your personal ad headline lately?

If it's coming close to Valentine's Day, why do you still have: “Take me
home for some Thanksgiving turkey” as your headline?

Your headline is your first impression!! (Have I said that enough yet?)

And if you're wearing green for St. Patrick's Day and it's already past
Easter, you're just not going to be appealing to anyone, are you?

People like holidays.

They bring the thought of change, fun and good times around the corner.

Doesn't that sound great for your headline to attract someone special?

So let's talk like we know what holidays are coming up in our headline.
Here's a refresher on holidays as they happen (not all holidays, but the big
ones are listed here):

New Years Day

Martin Luther King Jr., Day

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Australia Day

Groundhog Day

Waitangi Day

Lincoln's Birthday

Valentine's Day

Chinese New Year

President's Day

Washington's Birthday

First Day of Spring

April Fool's Day

Easter

Passover

Earth Day

And that's just the first four months of the year filled with ideas to change
your headline to something up-to-date.

Buy a holiday calendar and be aware of other holidays as they come close
to arriving and change your dating profile headline accordingly.

Anzac Day


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May Day

Battle of Puebla Day

Mother's Day

Armed Forces Day

Victoria Day

Memorial Day

Flag Day

Father's Day

Juneteenth

First Day of Summer

St. Jean Baptiste Day

Canada Day

Independence Day

Hiroshima Day

Labor Day

Grandparents Day

Patriot Day

Yom Kippur

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Thanksgiving Day

Columbus Day

Halloween

All Saints Day

Veterans Day

Remembrance Day

Thanksgiving Day

Hanukkah

Human Rights Day

First Day of Winter

Christmas

Boxing Day

Kwanzaa

Now then, take a few moments and mark the holidays that are just about to
happen and think up some snappy headlines to keep your online profile
fresh!

If you need more creative help, on the aLoveLinksPlus.com/blog every day
a new dating service profile headline is posted. Just go to this page:
http://www.alovelinksplus.com/blog/


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                 Putting Your New Headline Writing Skills Into Practice

                Go now and join some great dating services.

                aLoveLinksPlus.com provides reviews of several hundred
                online dating services where you can put your new
                attention-getting headline writing skills to the test.


                Open up your web browser and visit
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Miscellaneous
AdviceGeneral.com
eWealthyMen.com
PleaseBeMine.com
www.KissingBooth.com
CheapOnlineDating.com
www.d8me.net
RepliesWanted.com


This is a free ebook and may be freely distributed as long as it remains complete
and intact and is not edited in any way.

For further information about this book contact Robert Lee at
www.aLoveLinksPlus.com




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