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Getting Aging Parents To Move – 3 Tips

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None of us like to consider the idea that one day we may not be able to care for ourselves, or that we
may have to leave the home we’ve lived in for years in order to move to a retirement home or other
assisted living community. But the realities of aging often prevent a parent(s) from staying in their own
home. So what should you do when this happens and the parent(s) resists moving? Consider these tips:
     Tip 1: Discuss the options. If parent(s) start losing their ability to care for themselves, it's
        important to begin the discussion as early as possible. The possibilities include assisted living
        centers, retirement communities, at-home assistants and adding facilities to the home that make
        it safer for a parent to remain in their home.

    Tip 2: Evaluate the costs. While making a home better suited to an elderly parent may seem
     like an ideal solution, you should carefully evaluate the costs of any choice before deciding on
     any course of action. Upgrading a home can cost tens of thousands of dollars or more, and there
     may be easier solutions. Look at the options objectively and evaluate them in light of your
     parent's financial abilities, as well as his or her physical limitations.

    Tip 3: Discuss, do not dictate. The transition from an independent person to one living with
     assistance from others is difficult, and the parent(s) can often feel threatened by it. It's important
     to discuss the possibilities constructively. Dictating or ordering a parent(s) to take a specific
     action can create hurt feelings and resentment, making the process harder for everyone.

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