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                                  Self-help is written off by many, to be ineffective or a waste of
                                  time. In all likelihood, these critics have not paid attention to
                                  specific techniques that exist to pursue an organized, directed
                                  self-help strategy that slowly but surely, yields results. This
                                  article lists some of these techniques in a straightforward, easy-
                                  to-implement manner.

                                  Religion can help some people. Perhaps the religion you were
                                  raised in is not for you if you consider yourself an atheist.
                                  Certain people see religion as a way of finding their place in the
                                  universe, and some people see it as a way to improve their daily
                                  life by adopting a certain philosophy.

                                  Start educating yourself about the world and not just your
country. A good topic for discussion is relating different countries to your own. When you talk
about the knowledge you know of different countries other people become more interested in just
how educated you are, so take some time to learn about all cultures.

Replace negative thoughts with ones that are more positive or balanced. Keep a journal of
negative thoughts and what triggers them. When you are in a better mood, go over your journal
and see if the negative thoughts you had were necessary and how you can change the way you
viewed them at the time.

In order to develop a positive personality it is good to know what your priorities are. It is a good
habit to always avoid procrastination at all costs. The longer we wait to do something the less
likely it is for us to do it in the best possible way.

Reach for goals that may be just out of your grasp. You will never grow unless you challenge the
limits of your comfort zone. You do not want to try and attain impossible goals, but you do want to
attempt new things. This is the only way that you will change and grow as a person.

If you focus too much on what you want, then you create reasons for why you can not have what
you want. This leads you to dwell on your weaknesses. Rather, focus on gratitude. Every day,
you should focus on things that you are grateful for. This will give you a positive outlook on life.

There are many ways to learn life's lessons. One way to learn a lot while at the same time
helping others is by listening to other people. We all need a listening ear, and too many people
do not take the time to do this. Listen to others, and you will see a marked difference in your life.
In order to really feel the need to make a change, you have to be dissatisfied with your current
situation. If you are not completely happy, you will want to improve yourself. Just be cautious so
that you are not getting down on yourself, but are giving yourself motivation for change.

Gratitude is a very important step to personal development. You must be thankful for each day as
it comes. No matter if it was a terrible day, you should still show appreciation for the day that you
did have because you have probably learned a valuable lesson that will benefit you in the future.

If you find yourself at the point of a complete emotional meltdown, whether it is sadness, anger or
what have you, stop and do not say a word. Sit down with a notebook or journal and write down
the things that you want to say at that particular point. It will help you express your feelings
without causing further conflict.

Many people are plagued by not feeling motivated, but sometimes completing a task is only as
difficult as starting it. If you do not feel up to a task, try starting it. Many times, once you get the
ball rolling, you will find it significantly easier to follow the task through to its completion.

When you set personal development goals, set them slightly above where you feel comfortable.
It's that extra 5% on top of what you feel you can already accomplish that will make you the better
person. You'll realize how deep the well of ability is inside of you when you finally reach this
seemingly out of reach goal.

When seeking to develop your personality it is key that you seek purity as opposed to seeking
eloquence. In other words, seek wisdom that is both pure and powerful. Learn how to discern the
difference between truth and wickedness. Once you distinguish the difference between these two
you will gain both understanding and insight.

As you can see from the list of tips, you can really make a difference in how you feel about your
life. It takes a lot of work, a lot of planning, and tons of patience, but it is all worth it in the end to
become a better person. You will get more out of life.

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