Ok! to start off, I would like to say that single women rule! We, really,
do. Nonetheless, there are a few things that are going wrong. There are a
few points amiss, those points are the reason why a woman can be
hopelessly single. Most of the time, they are women who are successful,
and have a hot shot career. So then, why are such women single? What are
the mistakes single women make? Let's get into more details about it.
Most successful women tend to be unsuccessful in love. Several days of
adult dating, but none culminating into a beautiful relationship. Are you
going through this travesty? I know your state. A friend of mine went
through the same issue. How did she get through it? A little bit of
research and a lot of determination, is the answer. Follow these simple
tips for hopelessly single women.
R&D: Before you go out on your date, research. Speak to your guy friends
for an opinion about your "vibe". If it is negative in any way, work on
it.
Do not flash your credentials on the first date: Many women start
discussing their college (academically) and their high post in their
office. What they forget is that, in case, the man is not as successful
as you, he may end up getting intimidated. Do you really think he will
call you back then? So, don't treat your date like an interview, ease up
on the jargon.
Easy: You may be a very successful woman, and you may well deserve it as
well. Nonetheless, you need to know that a man might not be able to
accept it right away. However, if he is already interested in you, your
career would be of interest to him as well. So ease him into that
information. Let him see the non-career side of you first and then, the
fact that you hold a high post at work.
Mr. Right (Now): Many women end up avoiding dates, simply because they
think that the guy asking them out is not Mr. Right. My question is, how
would you know whether he is or not, until you give him a chance. May be
this guy who is asking you out, really likes you for who you are. Don't
you think he deserves a chance, at least?
Let's Talk: I am sure you are a very interesting person, besides your
career. But, how will he know that? Show him the side of you that he
would not see at your office. Don't dress in your office apparel. Let
your hair down on the date. Most importantly, don't take office calls
when on a date. Trust me, men hate it, all men! They require attention
from their lady, so give them that, in the start at least. So don't be
the "office Betty" on your date. Be the "Jenny from the block", most
effectively, his block!
Him, not you: Men love being the ones to get all the attention. No matter
how liberal the man may be, he still needs to be the one talking more. On
the first date at least. More so, you need to avoid talking about your
office, right? So, let him talk more. Be receptive and show genuine
interest. I know, we women think that men don't know the difference, but
we are wrong. At some level, they do. So be genuine and give your opinion
from time to time. Staying completely mum might make him think you are a
snoot, or that you are trying throw attitude at him.
Nightcap: This last point is assuming that the date went well, and that
it is time for "your place or mine". If, at any point of time in the
date, you realize that his house is not as big as yours, don't ask him to
your place. You rather go to his. This way, your "big house" won't turn
him down, and nor will it make you feel that he is dating you because you
are better off than he is (this thought comes to a successful woman's
mind, often). At the end of the day, you need to know that an interested
guy will like for who you are and not what you do. Often, in attempt to
impress, women intimidate. Be careful of that. Just be yourself, that is
the best you can be, and let him see that and love it. This is where I
sign off! All the best, honey!!