YOUR GUIDE TO STEALING TROPHY GIRLFRIENDS FROM COCKY GUYS
The Girlfriend Stealer
By Marius Panzarella
2002, All Rights Reserved
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Introduction
To be blatantly honest with you, I love stealing trophy girlfriends from
cocky guys. There is nothing more exciting and hilarious then stealing a hot chick
from her rich boyfriend. It is also a great ego booster and can definitely establish
you as the alpha male of your pack.
Since you’re interested in the subject, I am guessing I don’t really have to
explain to you why a man would want to steal a girl from another guy. But for
starters, girlfriend stealers usually do it for one or more of the reasons listed below:
1) To boost their own ego.
2) To do it for the challenge.
3) Because it is funny.
4) To be cruel and hurtful.
5) Because they are hopelessly in love with someone who has a boyfriend
already.
Picking A Target
In order to steal a girl, you will need to pick a girl to steal first. For some of
you, you may already have a girl you have always liked who is unfortunately going
out with another guy. Or for others, maybe you want to steal the big tease next
door from her Porsche-driving yuppie boyfriend just to teach him to be not so
damn cocky. The possibilities are endless.
But of those of you who don’t have a proper target yet, you will have to find
one. For starters, the girl you’re choosing should be:
1) Going out with another guy. (Duh!)
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2) Reasonably attractive. Not just physically attractive but beautiful on the
inside as well. She should be worthy of you. Don’t waste time stealing
sluts! It’s much too easy!
Your First Move
If your target is a stranger, it would be best to start with a normal pickup
attempt. Simply use the techniques you’ve learned from my book. If she turns out
to be single, then you may either seduce her or find yourself a new target who
actually has a boyfriend. (If “stealing” is your ultimate goal.)
If the tells you she has a boyfriend already, then there are two possible
scenarios:
1) She IS going out with someone.
2) She’s just lying to reject you nicely.
Either way, go for her.
But if a girl tells you she is single, then you should verify it as soon as
possible. Some girls are just nasty. They tell you they are single even though they
have a boyfriend already. Those are the girls you should stay away from. They
aren’t worthy of your attention.
Accessing Your Target
Let’s say you’ve chosen a target and she is really going out with another guy
at the moment, your next step is to befriend her for the sake of getting close to
her.
You should tell her you would like to become friends with her in a non-
romantic way. Ask her about her boyfriend and let her know you’re comfortable
with him. Personally, I like to tell a woman I want to be her friend because she
seems like a cool person. Then I get her to introduce me to her boyfriend and
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when she does, I compliment her about what a nice guy he seems to be. I can
almost guarantee you the woman will let her guard down immediately.
Be Patient
Next, just really be her friend for awhile. Try to find out as much
information as you can about her relationship with the other guy, such as how
long they have been dating, and how the relationship is coming along.
This is extremely important. If the girl has just been seeing the guy for a few
months, you can pretty much forget about stealing her. Since she has only been
seeing the guy for a short period of time, her PEA level will probably be at super-
high levels, meaning the relationship is still in the “honeymoon” stage. If this is the
case, just back off and wait for a few months. Trust me, girls won’t even NOTICE
other guys during this period. If you’re still gung-ho about stealing her, you are
going to have to be very patient.
On the other hand, if the girl has been seeing a guy for a long while, she may
be getting bored. If this is the case, then you’re in luck.
As you wait patiently for your chance to make the steal, look for signs of a
deteriorating relationship. Check if she’s starting to be unhappy or even bored
with her current romance. See if she complains about her boyfriend at all.
Moving In
On the first sign of her getting bored of her current boyfriend, move in! If
she complains to you about her boyfriend (She will if you have befriended her the
proper way), just listen to her bitch. She will really appreciate having a male
listening her problems, as her boyfriend probably doesn’t listen to her much
anymore.
You should also start flirting with and teasing her with the techniques you
have learned from my book. Make her want you and allow the tension to build up
over time. At the same time, send mixed signals and let her know she can’t easily
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have you. As you flirt with her, tell her you just want to be her friend and that you
will never date her because she is taken already. “Side” with her against her
boyfriend. This will confuse her and make her think of her boyfriend as an
obstacle between you and her. And guess what? She will start acting more hostile
towards the other guy!
As soon as you’ve got some good physical chemistry going on with her, you
should stop or back off. Just be her friend and stop all forms of physical contact
with her, or even pull away a little. Don’t see her, be away from the phone, and
forget to answer whatever email she sends you for a few days. This will drive her
crazy, as she has just gotten used to the male attention from you and it’s gone all
of a sudden. She will wonder about what went wrong and dream about you in her
sleep.
After a few days, start seeing her again – but hug and touch other female
friends in front of her this time. This will confuse her even more. However, do
not pretend to have another love interest because this will make her feel really bad
and she will probably go back to her old boyfriend to boost her own ego.
After a few days of ignoring her, you should shower her your attention
again. Start getting more physical with her, and keep flirting heavier and heavier to
keep pushing back her boundaries. Remember that you’re building the tension for
the final kill!
Making The Kill
Once the chemistry between you two is at its height, you may move in for
the final kill. In order to make a successful kill, you will have to do it at the right
place at the right time. She must want you as much as you want her before you
can deliver the final blow. Take her to a special place. Build a little bit of drama.
The trick is to make the whole situation look completely spontaneous and
dramatic. Remember the golden rules I’ve taught you in my book. Girls LOVE
drama and the feeling of being swept away by a moment. They love the feeling of
being helpless in a situation. So while you may have been planning the big finale
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for weeks, you should still make it look like as if the whole situation has come out
of nowhere and it’s really “Destiny” that has brought you two together.
When the time and place is right, you should look at her directly in the eyes
with the passionate gaze. Remain silent and let the tension build. Just remain still
and really look into her eyes. Don’t move an inch before she does. Then just when
she’s about to move or say something, reach out and grab her gently. You may
want to push her up against a wall if there is one. Then kiss her fiercely.
*NOTE* If she resists, stop! No means no! Don’t become a rapist! It is
simply wrong to force a girl!
The next stop is to act totally confused or even partly shocked, as if the
whole situation has happened out of nowhere and you have no idea how and why
it could have happened.
Say something along the lines of “Oh…I’m so sorry…I didn’t plan for that
to happen” or “Oh…I’m so sorry…you were looking so beautiful under that
moonlight I couldn’t resist”
The trick is to put the blame on HER. Make her think she is the one to be
blamed for initiating the whole thing. This will be extremely flattering, as she will
think she is so pretty that a guy couldn’t control his desire! And of course, if she
buys into the whole it-happened-out-of-nowhere thing, she will see you as the
prince charming who has suddenly come into her life rather then the sneaky
arsehole who has been planning to get into her pants for weeks.
Now, no matter what her reaction maybe, you should look at her directly in
her eyes. If she is furious, apologize again. (Mission failed. Move on.)
But if you’ve been building some good chemistry with her up to now, she
should be very confused. Some girls will even burst into tears under this situation.
Just look into her eyes gently. Penetrate her with your gaze so she does not have
time to think.
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At this point, a very common line said by girls will be, “I have no idea you
felt that way.” Boomerang that comment around by saying, “I think I only realized
it just now myself.”
If she still seems receptive, don’t stop there. Take her into your arms and
kiss her again. Then smell her neck and do all the things you’ve read in my book
about how to turn on a woman. Don’t give her anytime to think until she’s crazy
for you. Just flip to the “Getting Physical” chapter in my book and go from there.
What To Do After
Now that you have her, you must think about what you want to do next.
Basically, you have three different choices:
1) Dump Her
If you have seduced her “for fun” or you know she’s just a
player who won’t blink twice before ditching you, then do
whatever you want. I have no problem with ditching sluts, but I am
personally against stealing a good girl and then dumping her back
into the gutters because I think it’s just a nasty, nasty, nasty thing to
do. But hey…there are probably lots of arseholes out there who get
off doing it…
2) Spend A Few Nights With Her
Of course, you may be satisfied with just spending a few
nights with her. (Before getting bored…or if she’s really that good
you could always come back every full moon or something…) This
isn’t a bad idea, as forcing her to breakup with her old boyfriend
may prove to be a tedious process and not exactly a good start for a
brand new relationship.
Simply apologize to her and tell her you would still like to be
friends with her…give her a nice hug and drive her home.
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3) Force Her To Break Up With Her Current Boyfriend
If you’re actually deeply in love with her, or if she’s a good girl
who has been mistreated by her arsehole boyfriend, then by all means,
go out with her. Just remember: breakups can be quite painful and
tedious, and you should be there to protect and shield her from
whatever harm. After all, you’re (partly) responsible for her breakup!
Warning: It’s All A Fair Game
If the girl you stole was already in a good relationship with her previous
boyfriend when you stole her, chances are she would probably dump you for
another guy at the earliest opportunity.
In that case, you should end the relationship before she has a chance to. Or
if you really want to keep her around for a while (like she really puts out and
makes a good trophy girlfriend), then you should mark her as your territory and
guard her from other girlfriend stealers.
I am currently working on a new bonus report on how to guard your
girlfriend from other potential girlfriend stealers. Hopefully it will be out soon.
Until then, have fun stealing beautiful girlfriends!
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