Title:
Asian Playboy : Conveying Personality
Word Count:
908
Summary:
Pick-Up Artist Asian Playboy explains how to convey your personality to
get women.
Keywords:
pick up artist, pua, asian, playboy, convey, personality
Article Body:
Conveying Personality
Author: Asian Playboy
Site: BecomingAPUA.com
Let’s get something straight, girls judge by looks. If you are NOT good
looking, your only recourse is to have a hella tight VERBAL GAME.
Let’s get something straight, girls judge by looks. No ifs ands or buts
about it, they simply do. They want someone tall, dark, and handsome with
a huge cock. THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH THIS. They ALSO want someone
that can fill an emotional vacuum as well as PROVIDE THEM with an
emotional stimulus.
Honestly, I wouldn’t want to be a chick because guys judge almost
exclusively by ONE CRITERIA. Which is looks. Now girls, judge by TWO
CRITERIA (well, actually more, but for the sake of simplicity…) which are
looks and YOUR ABILITY TO AFFECT THEIR EMOTIONS. Or, in lay man’s terms,
your “personality.”
In order to exude confidence, fun, cool, and a host of other emotions,
you must CONVEY that you have all these personality traits. This can
range from peacocking in wild, outlandish, cool clothes showing that you
are fun and unconventional to the VERBAL GAME
IF you have VERBAL GAME, then you can convey your personality, show the
girl who you are, as well as push all those attraction buttons in a girl.
Some key elements of VERBAL GAME:
PROJECTION - If you cannot PROJECT and be VOCAL above the loud noise,
sounding confident and engaging the group, then you are not conveying
your personality. They cannot HEAR you and thusly will judge you simply
on looks.
STORY TELLING - Girls communicate by story telling. They are emotional
beings. Do not recite facts. Do not ask inane questions, but CONVEY YOUR
PERSONALITY by telling multiple stories from your life that range from
the funny, to the exciting, to the vulnerable. Role playing, future
projection, and just being damn funny. Singing. Yes, I said singing.
KINO - Girls affect others (male & female) by touch. They know they can
affect a man’s emotions and state by touching you. This also applies vice
versa. You CAN touch girls without fear. You CAN caress them without
fear. You CAN push them around without fear. You CAN kiss them without
fear. BECAUSE GIRLS ENJOY KINO AND THEY ENJOY YOUR TOUCH.
SEXUAL STATE - By being in a sexual state, by being WILLING to phase
shift into a sexual state and force HER into a sexual state, you are
CONVEYING that you are a SEXUAL MAN. You WANT her and SHE wants you.
THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH THIS.
ENERGY - This is ESSENTIAL for interrupting large sets AND mixed sets.
You must be willing to EXUDE and GIVE your energy to others. You must
ENJOY the process of partying, sarging, and socializing with total
strangers and NOT GIVE A SHIT.
PHYSICAL SPACE - Physical space is AN ILLUSION. You can invade her
physical space, get closer to her, and FORCE her to look at you. On the
flip side, you can act INDIFFERENT and make her insecure in her ability
to attract YOU because you are keeping a certain amount of physical
space.
INTERACTION - This is mostly for those who are heavily routine dependent.
If you are simply reciting routine after routine, the girl will feel LESS
INVESTED in the moment. You must PULL HER IN and interact with her.
FRAME CONTROL - You MUST control the frame, whatever that may be. You can
treat her as a CHILD and she MUST accept it. She will be PULLED into YOUR
reality and be fully concentrated on YOU. You cannot let HER control the
frame or otherwise she will have NO EMOTIONAL CONNECTION WITH YOU.
QUALIFICATION - You MUST qualify her in order to create and maintain an
emotional connection with her. Otherwise you will come off as either an
ENTERTAINMENT, DANCING MONKEY or a PLAYER who simply takes her number and
leaves, leaving her feeling cold, used, and impersonal. You MUST state at
some point what about HER that YOU like. DIRECT GAME depends on this the
MOST (ie You are BEAUTIFUL and I’d like to get to KNOW you better).
BODY LANGUAGE - While this is not exclusively VERBAL, the fact is, your
body language SUBCOMMUNCIATES to others what YOUR status and value is. If
you LOOK like you are uncomfortable in a social setting, your value,
coolness, and overall personality GOES DOWN. If you LOOK and ACT like
someone COMFORTABLE in his skin, then your value goes up. This can
include the way you hold yourself, react to girls touching and talking
with you, to dancing.
If you are NOT good looking, your only recourse is to have a hella tight
VERBAL GAME. Mysterious, brooding, silent and sexy only works for
Naturals who ARE naturally good looking and can get away without any kind
of game.
So, to make a long story short, if you are NOT good looking (8 and
above), then you MUST convey your personality to a girl in order for HER
to find YOU attractive beyond just the physical aspects. You can think of
yourself as the most fun, exciting, intellectual, sensitive guy, but if
you cannot CONVEY it, if you are some wallflower that sticks to the
shadows, then you cannot DEPLOY your verbal game and CREATE the
attraction in her. Then you are depending on LUCK and HOPING that she
somehow magically SEES those amazing aspects of you based on no
observational, supporting data.
Asian Playboy