Will the child forced caused Soul disturbances
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Will the child forced caused Soul disturbances Role of parents and the environment is often regarded as a helper can also become an obstacle to even a boomerang for the child to master developmental tasks at an early age. Can not be denied if the parents wish to form a personality and intelligence of children, they tend to want the best. But without realizing it, the excessive attention or imposition of the will of the child will actually cause psychiatric disorders. Form of delinquency and this developmental disorder can be seen from his parents' frequent headaches, excessive resistance, even a tendency to act aggressively and suicide. In order to prevent interference and the development of deviant behavior in children on adult time, it is best to control the growth of age 0 years to 6 years. As stated in one-day seminar which takes the theme of Early Detection of Children with Problems Sanglah Hospital, Saturday (30 / 8). Psychiatric experts who attended as a speaker at the seminar said that the role of parents is very important to prevent interference with child development, but the dominance of parents in controlling child's development can also be a boomerang for the child itself. "Patterns of parenting, such an authoritarian attitude and overprotective of the parent could trigger the emergence of behavioral and emotional disorders during childhood," said psychiatric expert dr. Lely Setyawati, Sp.Kj. The doctor who served daily in this Sanglah hospital admitted patients often receive due to such problems. According to the best parents make in raising kids is always wise. Setyawati rate is 6 entries that can be applied to enrich his knowledge and wisdom to face the child's parents, of which always shows a model not just the words of advice and teach children to know the meaning of disappointment and how to "manage" this disappointment. He suggested the children make happy, because happiness is affecting their current adjustment through childhood and will affect how they view life. What is interesting in the seminar this time revealed nearly 92 percent of the causes of developmental disorders caused by the mother. Pressure exerted mothers to their children is of course not consciously do it because they are too afraid to children, expressed as psychiatric experts from the Faculty of Medicine of Diponegoro University, Semarang, dr. Ismed Joseph, Sp.Kj. Joseph, who brought the paper handling troubled children, highlighting the misperceptions about various mental disorders experienced by children by parents and the general public. This misperception based on his experience with several patients, often causing the child poverty problem becomes too late. Described, most often mistakenly perceived by parents and the community is focusing disorder (GPH) with Behavior Disorders (GTL). When the last interference problem is a child, disclosed Joseph, the most important for healing were her parents. Because GPH or misbehavior in children caused by the lack of attention or too excessive parents to protect children. The best solution in dealing with this bad boy, Joseph said, in a way allowing the widest possible for children to act the way they want, do not even restricted or reprimanded. (iah) Taken from the Bali Post, 1 September 2003