Do not undermine your worth by comparing yourself with others.
It is because we are different that each of us is special.
Do not set your goals by what other people deem important. Only you
know what is best for you.
Do not let your life slip through your fingers by living in the past nor for
the future. By living your life one day at a time, you live all of the days of
your life.
Do not give up when you still have something to give. Nothing is really
over until the moment you stop trying. It is a fragile (breakable\weak)
thread that binds us to each other.
Do not be afraid to encounter risks. It is by taking chances that we
learn how to be brave.
Do not shut love out of your life by saying it is impossible to find. The
quickest way to receive love is to give love. The fastest way to lose love
is too hold it too tightly. In addition, the best way to keep love is to give it
wings.
Do not dismiss your dreams. To be without dreams is to be without
hope. To be without hope is to be without purpose.
Do not run through life so fast that you forget not only where you have been,
but also where you are going. Life is not a race, but a journey to be savored
each step of the way.
The one way to change others is to deal with them with love. When you
have love for others, you will have good wishes for them. Your desire to
change them will then be for their good and not for your own
selfishness. Others will quickly respond to your unselfish love and you'll
find them changing. Think of one person you want to bring about a change
in. Before you think of changing that person let there be a lot of love for
that person in your mind. Also make sure the change you want in the
other person is for his own good and not for your own selfish
reason.
Sometimes you are trying to remember something, it’s within your reach,
on the tip of your tongue, but it is just isn't coming out. Everyone around
is suggesting something or trying to help, but in reality not helping at all. You
wish for a moment of silence, so that you can dive into your memory
bank, for you know that is the only way you will be able to remember. This is
the power of silence in action. Many, not recognizing its power, do not
value it. They turn their heads away from the thought of a few moments of
silence. They feel it a punishment.
When we find our thoughts moving in many directions because of external
demands on our attention, we need to stop, take a rain check on
everything and experience silence. This power of silence is essential
when we want to plan for the future; we should silence unnecessary thoughts
and think of a point in question. So when you get an opportunity of a
moment's silence, don't waste that precious moment. Use it to
store the strength within that is so necessary for dealing with the
world without.
In life we get attracted and become attached to a particular object, person,
relationship or situation. Attachment seems to be the normal state of
our living experience. We seek it without a second thought. Is attachment
a desirable state? When a person develops a strong attachment, he is
likely to become sorrowful when the attachment is broken or
diminished. His emotional and mental state suffers. The broken hearted, the
vindictive behavior, the hatred, the jealousy and sometimes suicides are the
result of broken attachments. It is a risky business to make the
happiness of others our total happiness; to experience the
difficulties of others as our difficulties. We should not build our life to
such an extent around someone else's life or any object so that when anything
goes wrong we cannot function or we fall apart. It is healthier, stronger
and much more in wisdom to love everything and everybody, play
our roles and perform our duties to the maximum with everybody
and still remain detached. We will be able to provide more help to others
when we ourselves are strong from within.
Observe how easily the day would pass if you were able to move freely
without being affected by the negative attitude of others. Imagine
how much you can accomplish if you were able to remain constantly in a
calm and peaceful state rather than fluctuating up one minute then
down the next. Every time you lose happiness and go down, just see how
much energy is needed to take yourself up again. If you learn to remain
constant, not only is energy saved but you will find that your
mental strength increases and of course with mental strength and
stability come the development and maturity of character. Strength
of character depends upon my ability to remain unaffected by adverse
circumstances.
Many times I find that my words, actions or behavior tend to upset others
inspite of my not wanting to hurt them. I seem to be very happy with the
situation, but others don't seem to be. At that time I am not really able to
understand the reason for this and I consider the others to be unreasonable. I
need to check myself when others are getting upset with me. I need
to make effort to check and change myself constantly so that I am
able to move along with the demands of time. This is what will bring
about true contentment - such contentment that neither will I be upset nor
will I upset others.
From all that happens, there is usually a lot of learning from which we
can take important lessons. But sometimes we find ourselves making the
same mistakes again and again. So although we have understood we are not
able to bring about real change. Once we realize and learn from a
mistake that has happened, we need to spend some time in
understanding it even further. We need to ensure we don't ever repeat
the same mistake. This will enable us to bring about real change.
It is usually believed that when we are content we finish the desire to achieve
and so we find no improvement in our lives. On the contrary, we also find that
where there is no contentment the mind is disturbed and we are not able to
give our best to whatever we do. Whatever happens we need to retain
the happiness within ourselves. This comes only when we are
content with whatever is happening in our lives. When we create such
an internal environment, we will be able to have the enthusiasm to achieve
more and more.
The soul needs strength to deal effectively with day to day situations, as
demanding as they are, and yet be able to pack up useless thoughts; to be able
to take time out for itself, to store the power of peace from the Ocean
of Peace. If the soul does not recharge itself it will lose the courage and
enthusiasm. We need the strength to continue the fight for right, even though
the forces of wrong grow strong. We should fill our mind with positive
thoughts which make us more stronger from inside.
When given a responsibility I usually think of doing it alone. I usually feel
it is much easier not to involve many. I normally do this in order to avoid the
different kinds of personalities that I have to deal with. This attitude
deprives me of others' support and cooperation. When involved in a big
task, I need to see to it that I involve many. When I involve many and make
sure I make use of their specialties, even the most difficult task will be
made easy. Secondly, the good wishes of all involved will be for the
task, which will add to its success. Thus, team work is essential for
bigger success.
When things go wrong, the first thought is to control the situations or the
people involved. But since neither the situations nor the people are in
our hands, there is no success in controlling them. This only further
increases the negativity. Instead of trying to control something that I have no
control upon, I need to start with myself. The more I am able to keep a
control on myself with constant attention, checking and changing, the more
I will be able to have everything in control.
Many times when involved in something difficult, we begin to look for help
from people even before we have started. Prayer is also one method which we
rely on and wish for things to work our way. But not always do we find the
help coming that is required. So we tend to get disheartened and maybe even
give up trying altogether. The simple way to receive help is to first have
courage. When I first take a step of courage using the force of all
my resources, I automatically find others taking help from that too.
For having moved one step ahead, I get the help from the resources available,
from the people around, God himself & me. I thus recognize and make use of
all the help that is coming my way. So I never need to beg for help, but
find help coming my way automatically.
Whenever we become peaceless, we generally tend to blame others for it.
We think it is the other person or the situation that has made us lose our cool.
So although we don't like to be in this state of mind, we don't make
real honest effort to change it. And most of the time we don't even know
how to do it, as we are not even aware of where the real problem lies. We then
make those around us more peaceless instead of giving them peace, which
they actually require. We need to first know the cause of the peaceless
situation. For this we need to check ourselves with honesty. We need
to understand clearly that there is some conflict within ourselves that
is creating this situation. Then even if someone tries to create confusion,
we will be able to remain calm and peaceful. Since we are in our calm
state of mind, we will be able to give an experience of peace to
others too.
Simplicity is usually considered as being plain and with no decoration. So
when we think of simplicity we are not so attracted towards it. We tend to
make a lot of effort to colour ourselves with a lot of other things from the
outside which then become part of our personality. But in this process we
tend to lose touch with our innate (natural) purity and innocence.
So we are not able to express this beauty. Simplicity means complete
purity. It is to be egoless and also to be free from every kind of
negativity. So when we come back to our original purity and simplicity we
are able to express our innate beauty and strength. Since we are natural,
whatever we are doing, wherever we are, we will be able to express this natural
nature.
When we hear something new and worthwhile from someone, we naturally get
the feeling to bring that into our practical life. But it is then soon
forgotten and doesn't become part of our life. It remains theory in our
mind, and after sometime we are not inspired by it anymore. We either don't
have courage or are discouraged with our past experiences. We can bring
something we know into practice, only when we are able to
experience it at some point. For this we need to make a plan to actually
find a space for what we know to come into practice. When we start even
mechanically, that particular point brings experience in our lives. Then we
naturally further experiment with it.
We do maintain positivity to the one who is positive to us, but it tends to get
difficult to be positive to someone who is negative towards us. It
normally seems so easy to react negatively. But this only further worsens the
situation as neither is willing to bring about a change. The only way we can
still be positive when someone is behaving negatively towards us is
by reminding ourselves of our own inner power. When we are
connected to what we have, we are able to be a giver without expecting
anything. The cool water of our positivity is the only way we can put
out the fire of anger.
Whenever we face problems we tend to blame situations and people
and feel that these problems have come to take away our power. We
begin to wish for something to happen to change the situation so that
we can be free from the problem itself. But it normally seems to take a long
time before the situation changes. The only way we can be free from the
problem is to create a solution for it. The situation will not change on
its own but we need to create some solution for it. This is what brings
inner strength which is because of what we have discovered within
while working on our problem.
Whenever we are faced with difficult situations, we are not able to have
positive thoughts at that time. We come under the influence of that
situation and continue to create negative thoughts. So we are not able to do
anything to correct the situation, nor are we able to learn from it. Since we
cannot change the situation that we are faced with, we need to take
care to increase our own power. When our own state of mind is more
powerful than the situation, I am able to keep my mind cool and calm.
Thus I am able to take a new learning from every situation and in turn
make myself more powerful.
Most of the times we spend a lot of time and energy in explaining to
others about what we want to say. We not only waste our time and energy
in this but people tend to move away when a lot is said. We are not
listened to properly. A lot can be said using a few words. When we check
ourselves with honesty and think of what we want to communicate, we
can do it more easily with fewer words. Thus we save our time, energy
and that of others too. Others are more willing to listen to us and follow what
we expect them to do.
When we face negative situations, we either become negative or we try to
move away from the situation. But that too becomes a temporary
solution, as the negative thoughts, feelings and emotions continue
to follow us. The only way we can come into positivity, even in the most
negative situation, is by connecting to our innate qualities. Deep
within us are the most beautiful qualities of peace, love and
happiness, which we mistakenly look for outside. Practicing with
these qualities help us maintain positivity under all circumstances.
When difficult situations come our way, we generally are not able to be
confident of our success. So although there is a chance to do something,
we are not able to give our best. Each new situation is perceived as a threat.
Once fear creeps in, the situation further worsens and all chances
of success are gone. When we are determined we become confident of
our success. With this confidence we are able to do everything
necessary till we succeed. We never let go off anything half way, but see to it
that the task is completed. With every obstacle our determination further
increases, thus enabling us to progress at every step. So we find ourselves
getting better and better and there is success for us constantly.
Most of the times we are slaves of the past. Although the situation has
become past, we tend to think of it again and again. We are neither able to
forget the past nor are we able to forgive. We continue to create the same
thoughts and the same feelings again and again. Thus we find that we
are just caught up in the past, and we are not able to learn from it. In
order to move forward to the future, we need to free our mind of the past.
If we learn from the past, with this learning we can move forward. We
need to forgive and forget. We can forget only when we forgive and we
can forgive only when we learn. When we take the learning from
every situation, we are able to be free from being a slave of the
past.
It is so easy to speak negatively when we do not like something
about someone. Sometimes we do react to the situation and get angry. We
continue to find fault with that person. The person too responds
negatively to our negative thoughts. And so there is no hope of creating a
positive relationship. When something goes wrong in any relationship, the
first thing we need to do is to keep our mind calm and cool. When we
do this, we will not be caught up with the negativity of the situation or
the negative trait of the person at that time, but we will be able to see
something beautiful in that person. We will be able to appreciate and
connect to the uniqueness of that person, thus creating space for
rebuilding that relationship.
When we are faced with difficult situations, we usually tend to have a
feeling that we have no resources or are not able to make the best use
of the resources within for best results. Thus we are not able to
experience real progress. On the other hand we only tend to experience a lot of
negative feelings. When we learn the art of being stable in the most
negative situations, we know how to use the treasures that are
hidden within ourselves. Our mind is no longer disturbed with waste or
negative thoughts and we find it easy to face and learn from each and
every situation.
We usually expect people to behave according to our expectations.
We would like to see people change according to our expectations and
we expect them to mould themselves with our own value system. Yet
we notice that this does not happen and then we tend to become
disappointed. We need to understand that each one is unique with his
own specialties, and uniqueness. When we are able to appreciate this
uniqueness we are able to respect each and every human being and the
unique contribution he can make. So with this change in our
consciousness we will not expect others to change according to my wish
but will take benefit from their uniqueness.
To be cooperative to someone who is being good to you, and to get the
cooperation of "good" people is easy. But not always do we get people's
cooperation consistently. When we don't, it affects the task and our own
state of mind negatively. True cooperation comes from a vision of hope and
faith in each and every individual we come into contact with. When we have
this vision, we are able to give cooperation in the right way to
people. And we are also able to get their cooperation at all times for all
tasks, for we will be able to inspire the best in them.
One of the best ways to remain light, even in the middle of chaos and
heaviness, is to keep a conversation with God. Chatting to God, whose
responsibilities & power are unlimited, about trivial matters that are wearing
us down gives us a more entertaining view of life. It requires a certain
stillness of mind to hear His advice, but with practice we learn to sense
His perspective on our minor irritations. Since His mind radiates
lightness and love, the very act of opening ourselves up to Him
enables us to lighten our burdens.
When I am disheartened, I may do one of the two: I either suffer quietly by
admonishing my incapabilities and fate or I externalize my problems by
blaming God and those around me. Apart from the stress I create for
myself and negative karma with other souls, what's important is that
either way I am not solving the problem. Each one of us face disappointment
at our own times, but the longer I allow these feelings to stay on the more
attached they become. I can only begin to heal the situation and myself
by 'wanting a change', 'wanting relief' and 'wanting something
better as I deserve it.' This positive attitude works as catalysis to
transform circumstances, take me closer to God and create a new
destiny.
We learn a lot about someone's personality simply by listening to
them. On a gross level it reveals a person's background, education,
intelligence, wittiness etc. However it also brings to light one's attitude and
sanskars (personality traits): How much do we live in the past or future and
not the present, do we appreciate the positive aspects in situations and people,
are our words spoken with arrogance or humility, does my lax nature make me
speak inappropriately or does my intellect first judge the situation, time,
person, and consequences before I allow words to emerge? It pays to 'Speak
Less, Speak Slowly and Speak Sweetly' as it creates a place for me in other's
hearts in no time.
Would you reprimand a young child for their mischievousness or mistakes?
Though it's important to be firm in teaching discipline, a good parent or care-
giver realizes that the child is innocent of how it should behave. Therefore, the
approach is patient and loving. But what happens when we see adults making
big-little errors? Our mature self makes us react, comment, argue and say "But
they should know better..." It's true that adults have to be more responsible
for their actions but that's not always the case. It's in our best interest to
accept that no matter how much we correct people, they are likely to change at
their own time. At times, we all come under the influence of our sanskars
which compel us to act against better judgment. As we are in the same boat,
keeping faith and good wishes for others (and ourselves) is the best way to
guide and bring about good transformation.
To have cooperation, love and mercy is to be a giver. When we see others'
weaknesses all we can have generally are negative thoughts about them. We
can, then, no longer help the other person in any way as such negative
thoughts only further strengthen the others' negativity. Instead of reacting
with negativity, we need to have mercy for the ones who are in the control of
their own weakness and see if we can help them in any way. And the only way
we can encourage the others to change is with love.
Making things positive doesn’t mean a sunny outlook; it means making the
choice to see problems as opportunities. Every problem and difficult situation
is embedded with a solution - the adventure lies in finding the solution.
Getting on with people is tough, especially when they don’t fulfill your
expectations!
Instead, if you accept people the way they are without expecting them to be
something they’re not, you end up less disappointed and frustrated.
The way to control the mind is to talk to it with love. Whenever I find my
mind wandering I try to control it with force. I try to pull the mind and order it
not to think about something. Yet I find that, the more I try to force the mind
not to go in a particular direction, the more it tends to go there. The only way
to control the mind is to talk to it with love. Just as I would explain to a child, I
need to explain to it with love. This will make my mind my friend and I will be
able to concentrate even in any undesirable situations.
Success means to have positive thoughts which bring right actions in our life.
When things go wrong we usually find ourselves flooded with negative
thoughts. We, no longer can think right and so our actions go wrong, too. We
try to correct our actions but we cannot succeed in it and so we give up. We
need to change the way we think before we can think of changing our actions.
Success comes in the ability to maintain positive thoughts even in the most
negative situations. For this, we need the practice of maintaining positive
thoughts under all circumstances.
When I learn to respect myself, other people will respect me. How can I
develop respect for myself? By keeping my mind positive and encouraging
myself to grow and change for the better. Demanding respect because of my
position or background is simply arrogance. On the other hand, listening with
humility and valuing other people's advise naturally earns me respect. I get
back exactly what I give out.
To remind ourselves that we are the children of God is to take the gift of
positivity. We usually turn to God only when the situation at hand becomes
the worst, i.e., when there is no hope from anyone else. So, we find that in a
negative situation our mind naturally goes into negativity and then we have to
make great effort to turn it positive again. We need to remind ourselves that
we are the children of God. When we remind ourselves in this way we find that
we have a right to our father's property, of all the positive qualities. Then,
there will naturally be peace, happiness and love in our life.
The method to make use of all treasures is to be a master. When difficult
situations come my way, I usually become a slave to them. My feelings and
emotions are controlled by the situation. Then I am not able to have the
discrimination to see right from wrong. I need to remind myself that I am the
master of the situation. The situation is definitely not in my hands, but the
way I respond to it definitely is. When I keep this in mind, I'll be able to make
the best use of whatever is available.
When something goes wrong, check if you are able to discriminate and take
the right decisions. Be seated on the seat of an observer and you'll be
able to enjoy the games of the situations that come your way. The
more you are caught up in the situation, the more difficult it gets to take the
right decision. Each day practice looking at and appreciating the
variety that life brings. Remind yourself that life would not be so
interesting without this variety. Practice looking at all the situations in
this way and you'll find yourself stable.
Be light by checking and changing at the same time. When something goes
wrong, check if you are able to find your own weakness in that situation. Also
after finding that weakness in yourself, check if you are getting disheartened.
If you only check, but do nothing to change yourself you will find
yourself becoming heavy. As soon as you find a weakness, make sure
you make out a plan for yourself so that you can bring about the
necessary changes immediately to overcome that weakness. In this
way you will be able to remain light even when you find your weakness.
Effective meditation means to gather the positive resources of the
inner self and then use them in the outer world. It is important to
remain neither too much inside, nor too much outside, but constantly to
create a balance between the inner and outer realities. Meditation resembles
the cyclic path of energy: going from the inside out and then from the outside
in, gathering information, or experiences that we need to reflect on, or
understand better. On other occasions, it may be a question of recharging our
minds with positivity and peace: we go inside and, with the practice of silence,
the battery becomes re-energized.
The method to finish all labouring is to do everything with love. Throughout
the day we find ourselves doing several things which we don't like. As soon as
the thought of such a task comes in our mind we tend to feel heavy which
makes even the simplest thing seem very difficult. Before we are going to
start some task which we don't like we need to train ourselves to
think of something positive in it. When we train ourselves to love
the task we will be able to do it with lightness.
To be an inspiration to many is to be a hero actor. When we see negativity in
others, we usually think and speak about it. We then take no inspiration to
think and act positive. The more the attention is drawn towards
negativity, our actions will become negative too. Whatever the
situation we are in, we need to make effort to change our own
actions and turn them to positive. We will then be free from looking at
the negativity in others. And our actions will become an inspiration to those
around us, which will inspire them to become positive too.
Use the power of your thought and you will find negative situations
changing into positive. When things are going wrong, check what kind
of thoughts you are having - are your thoughts positive in spite of the
negative situation or are they negative. The more you have negative
thoughts, the situation will only worsen. When things are going wrong,
take a thought that it is not the thing itself that is going wrong but it
is your perception that makes it look negative. Also remind yourself
that you have the power to transform negative into positive. When your
thought changes the situation changes too.
You are the creator of your life by your thoughts & your feelings.
Whatever you THINK and FEEL creates everything that happens to you and
everything you experience in your life. Life is not happening to you; Life is
responding to you. Life is your call. You are the writer of your life story and
you are the director of your life movie. You decide what your life will be
– by what you give out. In universal terms, the law of attraction says: like
attracts like. What that means in simple terms for your life is: what you give
out, you receive back. Whatever you give out in life is what you
receive back in life. Whatever you give, by the law of attraction, is exactly
what you attract back to yourself. "To every action there is an equal and
opposite reaction."
But this means that you can change your life by changing your
thoughts and feelings. Give positive thoughts and feelings, and you will
change your entire life!
You have to be happy first, and give happiness, to receive happy things It
can't happen any other way, because whatever you want to receive in life, you
must give first! You are in command of your feelings, you are in command
of your love, and the force of love will give back to you whatever you give out.
In any moment, you're giving either positive thoughts or negative
thoughts. You're giving either positive feelings or negative feelings. And
whether they're positive or negative will determine what you receive back
in your life. All the people, circumstances, and events that make up every
moment of your life are being attracted back to you through the thoughts
and feelings you're giving out. Life doesn't just happen to you; you receive
everything in your life based on what you've given.
Your thoughts and words have no power at all in your life without your
feelings. You think so many thoughts in a day that don't amount to anything
because many of your thoughts don't elicit a strong feeling within you.
It's what you feel that matters!
Imagine your thoughts and words as being like a rocket ship, and
your FEELINGS as the fuel. A rocket ship is a stationary vehicle that can't
do anything without fuel, because the fuel is the power that lifts the rocket
ship. It's the same with your thoughts and words. Your thoughts and
words are vehicles that can't do anything without your feelings (fuel),
because your feelings are the power of your thoughts and words!
We first to decide what we WANT CLEARLY. Then we should use our
mind to IMAGINE about our desire. We must imagine our self with our
desired result. At the same time as we imagine, we must FEEL
LOVE\GOOD for what we are imagining, what we want. We must
feel having (i.e. already having) our desired result. Our imagination
connects us what we want & our “feeling & desire of love” create
magnetism, the magnetic power, which bring our desired things
to us. What ever you desire, you must want it with all your
HEART.
Whatever you feel, whether good or bad, determines your frequency, and
like a magnet you attract the people, events, and circumstances that
are on the same frequency! You can change your frequency at any
time just by changing how you feel and everything around you will
be changed as you are on new frequency.
Imagine what you want! Imagine and feel the love of having it. Imagine
every scene and situation you can with what you want, and feel that
you have it now. Try spending seven minutes each day imagining
and feeling having what you want. Do it each day until you feel as
though you already have your desire. Do it until you know your desire
belongs to you, as you know your name belongs to you. With some things
you will get to this state after just one or two days. Other things may take
you longer. Then simply get on with your life, giving as much love and as
many good feelings as you can because the more love you give,
the faster you will receive what you desire.
After you've imagined and felt having what you want, you're literally in a
new world with what you've imagined, so don't contradict the new world
by telling everyone about an injury (for example) that's not
improving, because then you are imagining the worst again, and you're back
in the old world.
As you imagine the worst, that's what you will receive back. As you imagine
the best, that's what you'll receive back. If somebody asks how your
injury is doing, you can say, "I am feeling one hundred percent
again and my body is following."
You can't talk about something you don't want without feeling bad. It's
that simple, but people are so used to not feeling good a lot of the time,
they don't even notice how bad they feel when they're imagining and talking
about what they don't want.
When you become more aware of how you're feeling, and you care
more about your feelings, you will get to the point where the slightest
(smallest) dip in your good feelings will be unbearable for you. You will
become so used to feeling good, you'll be so aware of your feelings, that if
they dip you will feel it and you'll get yourself back to feeling good right away.
Life is supposed to be fun! When you're having fun, you feel great and
you receive great things! When you take life too seriously; you receive
serious things. Having fun brings the life you want, and taking things too
seriously brings a life you have to take seriously.
“It is not what happens to you; but how you react to it that
matters.”
Blame, criticism, finding fault, and complaining are all forms of negativity.
All of them bring so much strife (trouble). With every little complaint and
every moment you criticize anything, you are giving negativity. Throw out of
your vocabulary words like terrible, horrible, disgusting, and
awful, because when you say those words, they come with strong feelings of
negativity. Don't you think it would be a good idea to use more words
like FANTASTIC, AMAZING,JABULOUS, BRILLIANT, AND
WONDERFULL.
Many people put their feelings on automatic pilot; their feelings are
reactions to what happens to them. However, they don't realize that it's
their FEELINGS that are the CAUSE of what happem to them.
"All that we send into the lives of others comes back into our own."
We don't make a connection when we stop our car to help someone who
has dropped something in the street and ten minutes later we get a parking
space right outside the supermarket door. We don't make a connection
when we happily help our child with their homework and the next day, we
receive news that our tax refund will be bigger than we thought. We don't
make a connection when we do a favor for a friend and, that same week,
our boss gives us two complimentary tickets to a sports game. In every
circumstance and moment of our life we are receiving what we
have given, whether we make the connection or not.
To change your life, all you have to do is tip (fill) the scales (Taraju) by
giving 5I percent love through your good thoughts and good feelings. Once
you reach the tipping point of giving more love than negativity, the
love that comes back to you then multiplies itself by attracting more love
through the law of attraction. Suddenly you experience an acceleration and
multiplication of good things! Instead of more negative things coming back to
you and multiplying, you now have more good things coming back to
you and being multiplied in every area of your life. And this is the way
your life is supposed to be.
When you wake up each morning, you are standing at the tipping point of
your day. You are the one who determines what your day will be - by the way
that you feel. As you begin your day and you're feeling happy, while
you keep feeling happy, your day will be great! But if you begin
your day in a bad mood, and you do nothing to change it, your day
will not be great at all.
One day of good feelings not only changes your day, it changes your
tomorrow, and your life! Provided you maintain your good feelings and you
go to sleep feeling good, you begin the next day with a momentum of good
feelings. The more love you give in your day to day life, the greater the
magnetic power of love you have in the field around you, and everything you
want will fall at your feet.
Every person is surrounded by a magnetic field, and so wherever you go,
the magnetic field goes with you. You may have seen ancient pictures
depicting something similar where they show an aura or halo
surrounding a person. Well, the aura surrounding each person is
actually an electromagnetic field, and it's through the magnetism
of your field that surrounds you that you attract everything in
your life.
What determine whether your field is positive or negative at any time is
your feelings! Every single time you give love, through your feelings,
words, or actions, you add more love to the field around you. The more love
you give, the greater and more powerful is your magnetic field.
Whatever is in your magnetic field is attracting to itself, and so the more love
in your field, the more power you have to attract the things you love. You can
get to a point where the magnetic power in your field is so positive
and strong that you can have a flash of imagining and feeling
something good, and within no time, it has appeared in your life!
That is the incredible power you have and that is the phenomenal power of
force of Love!
"Live today. Not yesterday. Not tomorrow. Just today. Inhabit your
moments. Don't rent them out to tomorrow."
So many people don't live for today. They are completely consumed with
the future, and yet it is how we live today that creates our future. It
is what you feel today that matters, because it is the only thing that
determines your future. Every day is an opportunity for a new life,
because every single day you stand at the tipping point of your life. And
on any one day you can change the future - through the way that you
feel. When you tip the balance to good feelings, the force of love will change
your life so fast that you will scarcely believe it.
"Destiny is no matter of chance. It is a matter of choice."
Life follows you. Absolutely everything you experience in your life is a
result of what you have given out in your thoughts and feelings,
whether you realize you have given them or not. Life is not happening to
you ... life is following you. Your destiny is in your hands. Whatever you
think, whatever you feel, will decide your life.
When you feel good about anything any person has, you are bringing it
to you. When you feel good about the success of another person, the
happiness of another person, or all the good things anyone else has, you
are choosing those things from the catalogue of life, and you are
bringing them to yourself.
If you meet someone who has qualities you wish you had, love those
qualities and feel good about those qualities in that person, and you
are bringing those qualities to yourself. If someone is smart, beautiful,
or talented, love those qualities and you choose those things for you.
If you're not feeling good and you want to change the way you feel, or
if you want to lift good feelings higher, then take a minute or two and go
through a mental list of everything you love and adore (admire,
love). You can do it while getting dressed in the morning, walking, driving, or
traveling anywhere. It's such a simple thing to do, but the effect in
your life will be amazing.
Make a written list of everything you love, which I urge you to do every
month in the beginning, and then at least every three months. Include the
places you love, the cities, the countries, the people you love, colors you
love, styles you love, qualities in people you love, companies you love,
services you love, sports you love, athletes you love, music you love, animals
you love, flowers, plants, and trees you love. List all the material
things you love, from all the different types of clothes you love,
homes, furniture, books, magazines, newspapers, cars,
appliances, to all the different foods you love. Think about the things
you love to do and list them all, such as dancing, playing a sport, going
to galleries, concerts, parties, shopping, list the movies you love,
vacations and restaurants you love.
One way to stay alert (of mind) is to trick your mind by asking questions
such as
o "What can I see that I love?"
o "How many things can I see that I love?"
o "What else is there that I love?"
o "What can I see that thrills me?"
o "What can I see that excites me?"
o "What can I see that I'm passionate about?"
o ''Are there more things I can see that I love?"
o "What can I hear that I love?"
When you ask your mind questions, your mind can't help itself and it gets
busy right away to give you the answers. It stops other thoughts
immediately so as to come up with the answers to your questions.
The secret is to keep asking your mind questions regularly. The more
questions you can ask, the more you will be in control of your mind.
Your mind will be working with you and doing what you want it to do,
instead of working against you. Take charge and keep your mind busy with
your instructions by telling it where you want it to go. Your mind only
takes off on its own if you're not telling it what to do.
"The mind acts like an enemy for those who don't control it."
When you're grateful (thankful) for the things you have, no matter how
small they may be, you will receive more of those things. If you're
grateful for the money you have, however little, you will receive
more money. If you're grateful for a relationship, even if it's not perfect, the
relationship will get better. If you're grateful for the job that you have,
even if it's not your dream job, you will receive better
opportunities in your work. Because gratitude is the great
multiplier of life! But you have to feel gratitude with all your
heart.
"If the only prayer you say in your entire life is - 'THANK
YOU' - that is enough. "
There are 3 ways to use the power of Gratitude:
1. Be Grateful for the things you have received in your life
(PAST)
2. Be Grateful for the things you are receiving in your life
(PRESENT)
3. Be Grateful for the things what you want in your life , as you
have received that things (FUTURE)
“If we will be quiet & ready enough, we shall find compensation in
every disappointment.”
No matter what negative situation you may find yourself in, you can
always find something to be grateful for, and as you do, you harness (bind,
attach) the force of love that eliminates negativity.
We can see that the people who had money not only attracted it to
themselves, but they also made money stick (attach, fix) to
themselves. If you took all the money in the world and you distributed
it equally to every person, within a short time all the money would be
back in the hands of the few percent, because the law of attraction must
follow love, and so the few percent who feel good about money would
magnetize it back to them. The force of love moves all the money and
riches in the world, and it moves it according to law.
When you change the way you feel about money, the amount of money in
your life will change. The better you feel about money, the more money
you magnetize to yourself. When you pay any bill, do not feel bad about
that. You can imagine anything else about that bill, such as, you can imagine
that you are giving donation, or imagine your bills are Cheques which
you are receiving. Give thanks to the company which give you such Bills
by thinking about the benefit you received from that company e.g. use
of Electricity, Telephone, Internet, Milk etc.
Similarly, when you receive your salary (no matter how much it is) be
Grateful for that salary so it multiplies! Many people miss this wonderful
opportunity to feel Good, to give Love about their salary. Remember
gratitude is the Multiplier!
Feel grateful, thankful, love when you pay for anything. Feel love with
all your heart by imagining how much your money is helping other
party, company, staff of that company. It will make you feel good
about money you are giving instead of feel bad because you are giving
money.
Imagine that you are wealthy right now. Imagine that you have all the
money you need right now. How would you live your life differently?
Think about all the things you would do. How would you feel? You would
feel different and because you would feel different, you would
walk differently. You would talk differently. You would react differently
to everything. Your reaction to bills would be different. Your reaction to
people, circumstances, events, and everything in life would be different.
Because you would feel different! You would be relaxed. You would have
peace of mind. You would feel happy. You would be easygoing about
everything. You would enjoy every day, without giving any thought to
tomorrow. That's the feeling you want to capture. That is the feeling
of love for money, and that feeling is magnetically sticky!
Remember, any time you hear of another person receiving more
money or success, get excited, because it means you're on that
frequency! It is evidence that you're on a good frequency, so be as excited as
if it were happening to you, because your reaction to the news is
everything. If you react with joy and excitement for the other person, you
are saying yes to more money and success for yourself.
If you react by feeling disappointed or envious (jealous) that it's not
happening to you, your bad feelings are saying no to more money and
success for yourself. If you hear of a person winning the lottery, or you
hear of a company making record profits, be excited and happy for
them. The fact that you heard the news tells you that you're on the same
frequency, and your reaction of feeling good feelings for those people says
yes for you!
“It is not how much we give but how much love we put in to giving.”
If you're doing a job because you believe it's the only way you can earn
money, and you don't love it, you'll never bring money or the job you
love that way. The job you love exists now, and all you have to do to bring it
to you is give love. Imagine and feel having the job now and you will
receive it. Look for everything that's good about the job you have
and love those things, because when you give love, everything you
love follows. The job you love will walk right into your life!
Even if you don't know what you want to do in your life, all you have to
do is give love through good feelings, and you will magnetize
everything you love to yourself. Your feelings of love will lead you to your
purpose. Your dream job is on the frequency of love and to receive
it, you just have to get yourself there.
"Success is not the key to happiness. Happiness is the key to
success. "
Money is only a tool for you to experience the things you l0ve in life. When
you think about the things you can do with money, you will feel much
more love and joy than when you think only of money. Imagine
being with what you love, doing what you love, and having the things you
love, because you will then feel far more love than you will if you only
think about money. Don’t make the mistake of thinking that
money is the only way you can receive something. That is limited
thinking & you will limit your life!
Don't make money your only target, but make your target what you
want to be, do, or have. If you want a new home, imagine and feel the
joy of living in it. If you want beautiful clothes, appliances, or a car; if you
want to go to college, move to another country, receive training in music,
acting, or a sport - imagine it! All these things can come to you in an
unlimited number of ways. Money is the one of the way out of
unlimited no. of ways to receive these things.
There is one rule with money: you can never put money ahead of love. If
you do, you violate love's law of attraction, and you will suffer the
consequences. Love must be the ruling force in your life. Nothing can
ever be put above love. Money is a tool for you to use, and you bring it
to yourself through love, but if you put money ahead of love in your
life, it will cause you to receive a whole bunch of negative things. You
can't give love for money and then walk around being rude and negative
to people, because if you do that, you open the door for negativity to walk into
your relationships, health, happiness, and finances.
You are meant to have the money you need to live a full life. You are not
meant to be suffering from a lack of money, because suffering adds
negativity to the world. The beauty of life is that when you put love
first, all the money you need to live a full life comes to
you.