1A My Marriage Profile - 11 by rajkpandey2000


									My Profile, Bio-Data, Certificates and Photos: Please Refer All Attachments!

This is a "Computer System Generated" Matrimonial Enquiry sent to you either via
http://cid-da2a266bdca7065f.office.live.com/browse.aspx/rajkpandey2000 and/or

We both are totally stranger to each-other so far although I am humbly and very
gently sending this profile including attached my Bio-Data, Recommendation Letters,
Health Report, Security Clearance, World Bank Recognization and my Latest
Photographs to an unknown e-mail ID for a general enquiry and information
dissemination motive, with an expectation that it may be relevant to someone

I am not sure yet, whether the marriage is matter of chance or choice. If this is a
matter of chance and luck, I am curious to find my luck soon! I have used different
modern approach and looking forward to see the anticipated result. Let's see what will
be the consequences in the future as unknown in life is both challenge as well as
opportunity which is a part of our life.

I am extremely sorry for bothering you, which is not my ill-intention, at all! You may
simply ignore and delete enclosed profile, CV, working certificates and all other my
reference materials and/or kindly forward this information among your relatives,
female colleagues, lady friend circles and their parents, if someone is also seriously
interested for this and has made her mind for the same purpose. Thank you very much
for your kind cooperation in advance. The following section is only for the concerned
one and her related family members, where I have honestly described my realistic
background as marital relationship must be based on the bond of trust and honesty.

Dear Friend:

Please accept warm regards! I am humbly corresponding with reference to the
matrimonial inquiry for your kind rational assessment purpose for a closed but healthy
friendship at the beginning and then possible match in the near future, if both of us are
made for each-other upon our compatibility and comfort! I am a Developmental and
Management Practitioner by training and profession. This year, probably after few
months, I am thinking and planning for my marriage with at least a "University
Graduate, but preferred Masters Degree and Job Holder or Self-employed, Pretty
Looking, Well Cultured Girl."

If the lady is unemployed at present, she should have career-oriented mind after
marriage to use her education as well as in enhancing for balanced marital life. The
main reason for setting all these minimum practical criteria is to thoroughly empower
the prospective life partner and acquire a reciprocal synergy for our lifelong personal
growth and development. For this rationale, I wish to emotionally, morally and
psychologically encourage and motivate my ideal life partner for her professionalism,
edification and overall personality development. But, what I only expect on her
intrinsic lady persona is: natural compassion in the heart of a well-cultured lady as
well as positive attitude and optimistic mind since she will be the source of an
inspiration for a man during difficult circumstances as well as for a positive
transformation in our lives.

However, the reality talks louder than dreams! At present, I represent the working
class economy: we both must work for our livelihood. Currently, I have some
hundreds of books in the name of property in my own name with a four-roomed
cemented home and some pieces of land in Tarai-Sunaul Bazaar, Nawalparashi, which
is an outcome of purely my personal income! But, I was grown up and educated
around Jawalakhel from the age of 10. Consequently, at any cost, we cannot settle in
Terai and must dwell in the metropolitan urban areas. Our sisters and all relatives
have already established their own homes in this valley and I/we also must construct a
permanent residence in Kathmandu soon, although for at least few years, we have to
happily live in a rental flat on temporary basis, especially around Lalitpur

As far as my core profession is concerned, I am actively involving with the
international developmental organizations since 1990. When I was exactly 16 years in
ninety, I started a career with the UK Government's DFID/Enabling State Programme
Nepal; Office of the Prime Minister and Council of Ministers; Himalaya Broadcasting
Company (HBC) Radio Station; United Nations Population Fund, Country Technical
Services Team for South and West Asia (UNFPA, CST for SAWA Countries);
DFID/Rural Access Program (RAP); Japan International Cooperation Agency/Japan
Medical Association (JICA/JMA) funded School and Community Health Project
(SCHP) and Save the Children-Norway (previously Redd Barna, Norwegian semi-
government international humanitarian organization). (Please refer the enclosed
resume, working certificates, recommendation letters, health report, security
clearance, World Bank recognization, etc. and/or click the ink http://cid-

Moreover, I was also temporarily implicated as an independent Freelancer Consultant
for UNICEF/ROSA, USAID/IFES and USAID/NDI for two years. Lately, I was
working with the Japan International Cooperation Agency (JICA)/Nepal Office in the
capacity of an AS Officer until I shifted to an UN Agency in 2008.
At present, I am working with one of the Specialized Agencies of the United Nations
(UN) System, based in Nepal, at Harihar Bhawan, Pulchowk, Lalitpur, in the
Administrative Capacity, which is a long-term permanent fixed job.

As far as my pedagogical background is concerned, I have completed Double Masters
Degree i.e. Masters in Business Studies (MBS) and MA Rural Development, both in
first divisions. Moreover, at the same time, I am also pursuing third masters degree in
Public Administration (MPA) course. I have simultaneously made my mind to enroll
for MPhil course as well to upgrade myself for PhD in a long run of my life, which is
one of the most pertinent future dreams for me.

Regarding my social background, I am Single (Never Married), Chhetri, 1974 Birth,
Aries, 60 kg weight, height 5'3' with fair complexion. (Please see attached photos
and/or click links: http://s737.photobucket.com/albums/xx13/rajkpandey2000 for my
700 photos in total 20 pages without downloading them and/or click another link
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alcoholic but occasional smoker, extroverted and determined laborious person for a
set-goal. I am only son with two married and one single sister. Our father used to be
local level politician in Triveni-Susta VDC during his youth up to 1970, which is
nostalgia for us in these days. On the other hand, he is also an Indian retired army
with the pension from India (70) and mother is housewife (67). They both live in
hometown to look after home and land and quarterly visit us for a week as well as
collecting their pension from Indian embassy.

Finally, if you feel comfortable to happily live in a rental house for few years; if you
are also seriously searching an ideal life partner; if your inner soul considers that we
both might be like minded friends for lifelong and our matching will be the perfect
one; if you trust me as a gentleman by the hub of your heart and curious for a
matrimonial relationship, we can meet as a very goodfriend at first and should try to
sincerely understand each-other thoroughly. When our inner chemistry, feeling,
manner, interest and ethos are compatible and comfortable for both of us, we will
spontaneously and unknowingly feel emotional attachment based on heart-to-heart
relationship, then we can rationally decide for our marriage-life as soon as possible,
basically after obtaining mutual consent and concurrence from our family members
and parents.

At a very fine and lucky moment, a meeting even with a stranger sometimes may
bring major transformation in our lives! Optimistically speaking, who knows future:
we both may prove to be the ideal lifelong friends and exact dream partner of each-
others! For this purpose, you may contact me without any hesitations at (977-01)
98510-86884/9841 813529.
Then, if you feel comfort and secure, I will invite you along with your best friends and
parents for a courtesy coffee meeting at Jawalakhel for our formal introduction that
will be the best way to initiate our long lasting cordial relationship. Beside this, you
can assign your reliable relatives and parents as your representative for an initial
discussion with our guardians or myself. Furthermore, alternatively, you may forward
your latest snaps and accurate information to us in making a logical family decision
for the possibility of amicable relationship, which is based on the bond of trust and

By the way, being an only brother of three my most respectable and loving sisters, I
can easily understand that it is extremely difficult in approaching to an unknown
person, particularly for the lady. I, therefore, would like to ensure you that: 1) Names
of several referees will be provided at any time in exploring the facts about me and
my family background; 2) Several meetings among parents/family members will be
organized to properly familiarize both the family members; 3) Medical health reports
will be submitted; 4) Academic credentials and working certificates will be presented;
5) Your parents/guardians can independently inquiry and research to verify my
background; 6) I/we will certainly facilitate for the acclimatization process to easily
adopt our new role and responsibility in the totally new environments; and 7)
Sufficient time will be allocated to closely recognize and understand each-other from
insight but the final decision is yours: madam!

If your family members wish to meet my parents/guardians to seriously discuss on
this issue more broadly, please let me know so that I can provide you their direct
contact address for further detailed discussions. I can also arrange a series of meetings
among our parents/guardians to materialize our lifelong visualized dreams into the
reality. Finally, please refer all the attachments with this e-mail and looking forward
to hear from you a very positive response soon!

With Warm Regards!

Raj K Pandey Chhetri, (MBS, MA)
Jawalakhel, Lalitpur
GPO Box: 19862, Kathmandu (Nepal)
Mobile: (977-01) 98510 86884
Mobile: (977-01) 9841 813529

Profession: Raj K Pandey started his career in 1990, at the age of 16 with: 1) Save the
Children Norway (Redd Barna); 2) Japan Medical Association (JMA)/School and
Community Health Project (SCHP); 3) UK Government's Department for
International Development (DFID)/Rural Access Program (RAP); 4) United Nations
Population Fund, Country Technical Services Team for South and West Asia
(UNFPA CST for SAWA Countries); 5) Himalaya Broadcasting Company (HBC)
Radio Station; 6) Office of the Prime Minister and Council of Ministers through
Strengthening the Office of the Prime Minister and Council of Ministers Project
funded by DFID; 7) DFID/Enabling State Program-Nepal.

Moreover, he was also implicated as a short-term Consultant with: i)
UNICEF/Regional Office for South Asia (ROSA); ii) USAID/International Federation
of Electoral System (IFES); and iii) USAID/National Democratic Institute (NDI).
Prior joining one of the Specialized Agencies of the United Nations (UN) System in
2008, where he is working as an administrative staff in these days, he was involved
with the Japan International Cooperation Agency (JICA) Nepal Office in the capacity
of an AS Officer.

Education: He has completed his Double Masters Degree i.e. Masters in Business
Studies (MBS) and MA (Rural Development), both in the first division.
Simultaneously, he is also perusing his third Masters Degree in Public Administration
(MPA) Course in the early morning in these days. Moreover, he has strongly made his
mind to enroll for MPhil Course as well sometimes in the future to upgrade himself
for PhD in a long-run of his life, which is one of the significant long-term dreams of
his life.

Attributes: He is a self-disciplined, self-made, self-developed and self-directed person
without guidance from anybody. He dreamed, visualized and worked hard to
materialize his vision, goal and aim, which made him active, laborious and confident
to cope the difficult challenges and circumstances. On the other hand, when he was in
his early teenage and younger age, he used to work exceptionally hard both for his
professional career as well as education. He was able to work for up to 18-19 hours
daily in that struggle period and used to sleep merely 4-5 hours. Consequently, he
successfully continued his full time job and education simultaneously. However, when
he gets leisure time in these days, particularly during Saturday and Sunday, he simply
enjoys for — laying on bed, traveling around countryside, reading newspapers,
listening music, working in a computer for writing something, dine delicious meals,
chatting, sharing and joking on generic issues with all the family members, especially
two sisters, who are living very closed to his house, reviewing literature/reports,
watching latest movies/TV and sleeping for very late hours.
 Personality: He is liberal minded, independent, honest, talkative and extroverted
person. He often trusts people easily but they exploit his gentleness, soberness and
softness for their own vested interests, which makes him sad. He prefers simple life
with the better human capital for own inner satisfaction purpose.

Ideal: He respects women and men who are simple, gentle and liberal, although he
likes straight forward nature and speak of mind. However, he disgusts and
immediately discontinues even the humanitarian relationship with the liar, hypocrite,
arrogant and sadist persons as they are good for nothing for others.

Strength: He is strongly determined person for his goals and visions, which makes
him exhausted and burnt-out. Consequently, he can hardly smile, laugh and get
pleasure in his life! Moreover, he mostly feels loneliness as he can hardly sacrifice his
time for an unproductive purpose and social relationship.

Weakness: a) He is, however, not a perfect household manager particularly for
cooking, laundry, ironing and other domestic work as he never practiced such
activities in his entire life due to sufficient love and take care rendered by his
mother/sisters. b) When someone behaves dishonest, sadist and egoistic way, he
completely ignores him/her and never attempts to reestablish any further humanitarian

With Best Regards!

Raj K Pandey Chhetri, (MBS, MA)
Jawalakhel, Lalitpur
GPO Box: 19862, Kathmandu (Nepal)
Mobile: (977-01) 98510 86884
Mobile: (977-01) 9841 813529

Dear Friend:

This justification and all attachments will logically explain, analyze and convince
you not only about the e-marriage proposal, but also on the humanitarian relationship
in general, and male and female marital relationship in specific from different
prospective. The following section will be useful for all of us to clearly understand the
practical difficulties during match making process in our life. This text has been
disseminated via http://cid-da2a266bdca7065f.office.live.com/browse.aspx/rajkpandey2000 on
behalf of its originator, especially for the interested single lady - University Graduate,
Job Holder/Self-Employed and Nice Looking Girl.

The primary cause for using the webmail based information technology (IT) system
for a general matrimonial related enquiry is due to the distance induced bravery. I am
directly and personally approaching for the life's most sensitive, difficult and
challenging issue on a supposition that the marriage is the most natural, psychological,
emotional and social dire need of both — male and female, sometimes once in a life.
Moreover, each family may have an eligible bachelor — family members, relatives,
social networks, colleagues and friend circles — who might have informally searching
a suitable match for their grown-up children through existing traditional social
network approach due to the push/pull factors, but they might also have not been
completely able to find out the right candidate for their fully grown-up children in
consideration of several other issues.

We are aware that all unmarried persons, including us, have an imaginative image for
an ideal life partner on our subconscious minds/dreams from the very early teenage of
our lives. To find our lifelong envisioned ideal/dream person into the reality, our
minds/souls unknowingly keep on searching/exploring around with an expectation
that s/he, who is imaginarily living with us in our subconscious minds from the very
early age, will come soon even in the reality of life. We hope that s/he will be the right
friend to spend rest of our lives together for the better aesthetic values, which will
permanently end the bitter loneliness feeling and inner vacuum within ourselves. But,
very few people are lucky enough for such unconditional true love, which all cannot
find in their life.

However, unfortunately, our age keeps on running out rapidly for waiting that especial
friend in real life, albeit we are not sure yet, when we will meet her/him in the reality.
Consequently, when we do not meet our lifelong expected dreams into the reality, it
creates enough anxiety, stress, frustration, personality and psychological disorders
among us and we feel extremely sad.
Likewise, both arranged and love marriage have certain pros and cons but 'like minded
values and ethos based' marries, where both will have total freedom of choice for the
rational selection of an appropriate life partner, is the best approach since decision of
social-knot directly affects both. Moreover, we have limited social networks, family
ties and relatives, where we can hardly find the dreamed and qualified partner due to
lack of an easy and direct access with her/him. On the other hand, our extremely busy
mechanical routine life from early morning to late evening for our other daily
priorities, has limited us for the better option to expand the social network. As a result,
the tremendously competitive world, especially in the fast metropolitan life, has made
us extremely lonely even among the huge mob of the people, as we can hardly mix-up
with them due to their varied nature as well as lack of sufficient spare time with us.

Similarly, we are totally option and voiceless to select a suitable right partner, when
marries proposal is put forward from our closed relatives since we can hardly say 'no'
to them despite our several reservations. The marries facilitators also unnecessarily
exaggerate on the qualities of the possible grooms/brides, which may not be realistic
in the practical life. But, marries decision that we make only once in a life is for the
sake of entirely ourselves, not to make others happy since it determines our future.
Moreover, even a self-chosen love marries and/or arranged marriage can hardly be
guaranteed for lifelong success, durable and happy relationship until our death.
Subsequently, it is always a creative tension as well as hidden mental stress to make a
marriage related single decision with a totally unseen person, which is exactly like a
gambling, either we will be winner or loser!

However, we have to ultimately trust an unfamiliar opposite gender and select a
totally unseen person as a lifelong partner out of six billion plus population on this
earth. Although, we are not sure yet, who s/he will be, where s/he is now, what s/he is
doing, how s/he will approach to us and when s/he will be our real friend as well as
how our future relationship will go with her/him. We, ultimately, need to focus merely
for his/her comfort/happiness until we die as soon as s/he enters into our life as
change maker, who will impart significantly differences throughout our life.

Beside this, what we are mainly lacking to find out our lifelong visualized opposite
ideal partner is — easy access, effective negotiation, two-way communication,
sufficient time for interactions and most importantly inner courage and self-
confidence to approach her and directly propose for marriage due to fear of rejection.
However, the sky is unlimited and six billion-plus populated world is beyond our
horizon, although we don't have an easy access to directly contact her. It is not a
wrong idea to creatively but gently approach her and exchange our mutual
information for an enquiry since s/he might also have been waiting for the entry of a
right person into her life for her marriage purpose — who knows we may be the hero
by mistake as we both may have been made as an ideal life partner for each-others!
As marries is one time great event in our life and we can try our level best to invite the
proposal from eligible, well-cultured person/family background as far as possible.

But, we should never enforce/persuade the second party to make a decision favorable
to us since the marriage relationship must be based on independent personal decision
of both — without external influence, pressure, threat, hanky-panky and so on — even
from family members. Let's continue our dream till we get the best one, when dream
is over and shattered, we will really suffer for loosing hope in life. We should not
easily accept the cowardice defeat, without waging another effective war to achieve
the lifelong visualized person as we can find exactly the same what and whom we
dream, if marries is truly made in heaven.

I, therefore, have used atypical modus-operandi in exploring ideal life partner and it is
expected that s/he will be the exact lady, whom I have imagined and retained in my
subconscious mind from early teenage. Let's see how general people in our
conservative society will perceive such a different method as individual
interpretations/judgments are the outcomes of our backgrounds. But, I am certain that
she will be the lady with exact attributes, who will positively accept not only such a
unique process, but also other several social transformations as mediocre narrow mind
can never welcome any changes in the new environments since they are totally happy
to live in the traditional status-qua situation due to fear of unwanted social criticism
and likely risk in life.

The most essential pre-requirement for possible happy marital life is that both male
and female, first of all, should have natural attraction from heart, without external
influence, at a preliminary face-to-face meeting — both should feel 'click' in their
minds to see each-others at the first sight. The first meeting and its overall
impressions generally determine whether the further contacts will be
strengthened/interrupted. If both feel compatible and comfortable with each-other
during introductory conversation process, their minds and hearts will spontaneously
but unknowingly admit as like-minded prospective friends despite other several men-
made gaps and obstacles — economical, social, educational, psychological and
professional — as both have emotionally, mentally as well as psychologically
accepted without any pre-occupied minds and persuasions.

If both are honest, respectable, lovable and acceptable, a kind of special feeling,
thought and emotional rapport will be developed within ourselves, which will further
enhance for the deep-rooted love, affection, interdependency and psycho-socio
belongingness to reinforce the post-marital life. Subsequently, both will heartily
accept not only the roses but also the thrones since couple has strong emotional and
sentimental heart-to-heart bonds based on natural attraction, trust and self-
commitment for the life-long association until death, which nobody can easily alter.
As the human relationship is related with the meeting of like-minded minds and the
common wave-length can further enhance for the retention of long-term marital
relationship in our life.

Moreover, if we find exact dreamed partner, all our senses might be positively
persuaded and heartbeat might be amplified due to an unique feeling within us —
exactly the same natural process that we can closely observe among animal kingdom
— where inner natural chemistry between them determines their attraction/repulsion
for further relationship at a very first meeting of both.

We can also boost pleasure of mind, inner happiness and satisfaction through natural
process, if couple has liking minds and web length for each other via — reciprocal
unconditional love, caring, sharing, mutual understanding and respect for feeling and
emotion of the husband and wife, which should based on the ground of mutual trust
and honesty. It is a general human tendency that whatever we perform, we simply act
upon in order to avoid the pain and gain the pleasure. We, therefore, generally worry
and fear with the likely change process and reluctant to renounce the comfort zones,
but we have to eventually accept new roles and responsibilities despite uncertain
results in our life.

If spouse have certain common grounds, particularly in terms of their socio-cultural
values, ethos, interests, likings, disliking as well as shared dreams and visions, the
post-marital life will enhance better synergy, positive energy, creativity and prosperity
for both. However, if marriage is completely based on compromises, conditionality,
baseless commitments and dishonesty, it may prove counterproductive at any time in
a long run since the relationship must be based on the bond of trust and honesty as it is
simply the beginning of relationship not the end. Moreover, if we establish a marital
relationship on the ground of untruth, dishonesty, exaggeration and hanky-panky, it
will mentally hurt your partner due to a betrayed deal, which will make her/him
lifelong regretful that will never keep your partner happy. If your partner is not happy
at all due to your dishonesty, it is obvious s/he can never keep you/your family
members happy as well.

Moreover, approached person might not have made her mind for her marriage at this
particular juncture and/or she might have settled. Similarly, both might not have met
their pre-occupied basic expectations and criteria as well as both may have differences
in terms of their so-called socio-economy, socio-cultural and family-based values,
which may indirectly affect post-marital life, particularly during elderly age because
of the likely cultural socks. Consequently, everybody has freedom of choice for the
rational decision for her/his marriage without external pressure and persuasion since
being self-master we should not feel regrets for our self-decision.
Finally, if your eligible unmarried lady family members, friend circles, relatives and
female colleagues — at least an university graduate, job holder/self-employed and
well-cultured pretty looking lady — is thinking for her marriage within this year,
please convey and forward this information. As a result, she/her family members can
rationally assess our suitability from different prospective for the perfect matching as
far as we can make it, if marries is a matter of choice! Your tiny efforts will directly
support us to reduce the 'information poverty' and search of an ideal life-partner of
two persons will be permanently over. If your interested lady friends/their family
members wish to contact me/my parents/sisters to discuss more seriously, please feel
free to contact us.

Please refer all the attachments and looking forward for a positive response soon.

Warm Regards!

Raj K Pandey Chhetri, (MBS, MA)
Jawalakhel, Lalitpur
GPO Box: 19862, Kathmandu (Nepal)
Mobile: (977-01) 98510 86884
Mobile: (977-01) 9841 813529

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