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RECLAIMING MINISTRY







Dr. Gerson P. Santos

Sabbath School & Personal Ministries Department

Greater New York Conference of Seventh-day Adventists

I. How to present the Gospel

to a Former Member



1. Never reprove or condemn.

2. Never defend or take sides.

3. Ask for forgiveness for the wrong doings of the past,

and solicit the opportunity to compensate for the

embarrassment that they have experienced.

4. Admit that sometimes our church members make

mistakes, however, remind them that God does not

err. He is always just and considerate.

Presenting the Gospel





• The divine attraction - 1 John 4:8

• The problem of sin - Romans 3:23

• The solution: the gift of God - Romans 6:23

• Separation of sin - Romans 2:4

• Unity in Christ - Revelation 3:20

Acceptance Prayer





“Dear God, I invite you to take control of

my life. I want Jesus to come into my

heart. I want you to be my Lord and

Savior. Please forgive me of my sins.

I now thank you for giving me eternal life in

Jesus. Please help me to obey and

follow you. In Jesus’ name, Amen.”

II. Relationships



• “The first casualty in the culture war

isn’t truth. It is love.” John Ortberg

• Witnessing does not consist of winning

arguments. It consists of winning hearts.

• Friendship leads people into church

and helps them stay.

II. Relationships



• “A kind courteous Christian is the most powerful

argument that can be produced in favor of

Christianity.” Gospel Workers, 122

• “ If we would humble ourselves before God, and

be kind and courteous and tenderhearted and

pitiful there would be one hundred conversions

to the truth where now is only one.” Testimonies

9, 189

III. Relationships Come Before

Resources





• Rule # 1: Relationships come before

Resources

• Programs don’t win people back to

church, people do!

Six Ways to Raise Concern Over

Missing Members



1. Communicate the biblical paradigm.

2. Share facts.

3. Encourage personal story-sharing.

4. Raise a vision.

5. Begin intercessory prayer sessions.

6. Connect with a member passionate about

missing members.

Six Relationship Concepts to

Remember When Reclaiming Dropouts



1. Most people a church because of personal pain, not

theology.

2. Most missing members want to share their story.

3. Most dropouts need time to heal, time to rebuild

relationships.

4. Most former members would be happy to meet with another

church member, but not the pastor.

5. Most who have left need one visit for every year they have

been out of the church.

6. Most people respond to personal care shown by someone

toward them.

IV. How to Get Decisions from

Former Adventists



• The greatest needs of former Adventists are

for love, understanding, nurturing and

fellowship.

• If you do not know the former Adventist

already, get acquainted with them using the

F-O-R-T approach.

Keep in Touch

1. Visit the former Adventist on a regular basis.

2. Help them work through special problems.

3. Find one or two members to befriend.

4. Add the person’s name to the church’s mailing list.

5. Send them a greeting card.

6. Give them a gift subscription.

7. Call them to tell them about upcoming events.

8. Visit and support them in times of bereavement.

9. Pray for them during altar calls.

10. Don’t embarrass them by acting surprised when they

come back to church.

Seven “Dos”



1. Come to the point quickly.

2. Let the bitterness come out.

3. Avoid defending anyone.

4. Do keep confidence.

5. Do make your visit brief.

6. Always close your visit with prayer.

7. Give a brief invitation to come.

Five “Don’ts”



1. Don’t try to arrange Bible studies.

2. Don’t accept money from backsliders.

3. Don’t solicit backsliders for an Ingathering

contribution.

4. Don’t dismiss a backslider as hopeless

because he is too many miles away.

5. Don’t argue about church standards with a

backslider.

V. God’s Church on Earth



• The church of Christ is the only object

on earth on which He bestows His

supreme regard.

• Ephesians 5:26, 27

• Zechariah 2:8

God’s Regard for His

Church

• “Nothing else in this world is so dear to God as

His church.” (Testimonies 6, 42)

• “The church of Christ, enfeebled and defective

as it may be, is the only object on earth on

which He bestows His supreme regard.”

(Testimonies to Ministers, 15)

The Church is not perfect



• “The church of Christ on earth will be

imperfect, but God does not destroy His

church because of its imperfection.” (Test. to

Ministers, 46)

• The Church will consist of defective

members

• “He (God) has a church, but it is the church

militant , not the church triumphant.” (Test. to

Ministers, 45)

Tares amid the Wheat





• “Although in our churches, that claim to

believe advanced truth, there are those

who are faulty and erring, as tares among

the wheat, God is long-suffering and

patient.” (Testimonies to Ministers, p. 45)

Christ is leading a church, not

independent offshoots



• “God has a church upon the earth... He is

leading, not stray offshoots, not one here and

one there, but a people.” (Testimonies to Ministers,

p. 61)

• “The church, enfeebled and defective, needing

to be reproved, warned, and counseled, is the

only object upon earth upon which Christ

bestows His supreme regard.”(Testimonies to

Ministers, p. 49)

Quotations About Former and

Inactive Members



• Efforts should be made to bring back

those who have strayed

• In the parable of the Lost Sheep

Jesus illustrated heaven’s attitude

toward the backslidden

• Hunt up the backsliders with the

message of mercy

Checklist for Starting a Reclaiming

Ministry

Pray for a God-given passion for missing members.

Develop a vision, both a picture of the problem and possib

solutions.

Create awareness and communicate your vision with

members.

Organize a ministry.

Choose a Sabbath for a special event to take place.

Prepare resources for your church date and event.

Use resources by sending them out or posting them at you

church.

Prepare your church.

Do follow-up work, visit, and plan further events.



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