What happens to your online life after you die? by BhaskarT


									                       What happens to your online life after you die?

Our predecessors archived their Photographs, Diaries and Documents to build their legacies and
this legacy was passed on from one generation to the next. With the increasing role of the
Internet in our lives, our legacy for the next generation is locked up in the cloud and governed by
the Terms Of Service of the service providers ( Gmail, Facebook, Yahoo). Ever wonder how our
future generations will access our legacy and know about us?

We have a thriving online life on social networks, blogs, email, and many websites. We are the
first generation to create significant Digital Assets and also the first generation to face the issue
of a Digital Afterlife. We must take measures to preserve and pass on our online lives so that our
heirs and loved ones have access to our memories and information to tie up our digital loose ends
after we are gone.

Recently,many cases of a loved one’s passing away have been reported, with no information left
behind for heirs and friends to help them to access the deceased person’s digital life. Loved ones
are left with the dilemma of having to deal with a deceased person’s online account in case they
do manage to access it after a long retrieval process. Should they erase certain data from it,
preserve it or shut it down? Most people do not provide details and instructions for their online
accounts in their last will and testament.

Like Libby, there are many cases where passwords are not left behind, which can cause hassles
for heirs. In an article in The Guardian, was the story of Donna Rowling who had to cope with our
husband’s online presence after his demise which was quite a disturbing experience for her.

Donna Rawling lost her husband, Tom Cooper, in July last year. “I managed to wrap up his affairs,
but the area that I was left with was his presence on the web,” she says. Tom was a motorcycle
enthusiast, visiting many different countries on his bike and posting pictures of his travels on his
blog. He was also a member of Friends Reunited and probably “a myriad of other sites” of which
Rawling is unaware. She describes his continuing presence on the web as “eerie”, and would like
some of the information removed.”Normally you get in touch with friends and acquaintances and
colleagues and let them know what’s happened,” she says. “That gives you closure and stops you
being contacted in future and asked how you both are. But to my knowledge, there’s no way of
doing that with the web. The perception is that he is still alive and well and having fun on his

The Gaurdian article carried another story about Tom Stuart and his son, which highlighted the
deceased user policies of major websites and why it is important to know the policies that
websites you frequent have on deceased user accounts.

Tom Stuart was an active eBay member until he passed away in November 2007. His son, Darren,
believes there could be up to £1,000 in his father’s PayPal account. But he has been unable to
gain access: his father left no will and no indication of what the password might be.

Stuart emailed the account review team in March 2008 in the hope of withdrawing any funds in
the account. “All I got back was an automated response,” he says. “I phoned the customer
services department and eventually got put through to someone. He wanted a solicitor’s letter
saying I was the executor of the estate. I told him, ‘We don’t have that information. There was no
will.’ And the response was basically, ‘That’s our policy.’ ”

Death in life these days doesn’t mean death on the Internet. New Times tells the story of Peggy
and how she wrote about her battle with cancer on her blog and Facebook page. She gained many
followers who avidly read her blog. Her Facebook page garnered a lot of attention and she had a
huge fan following. More than two years after her passing, they’re both thriving. Peggy’s brother
took over her blog before she died and never stopped writing about memories of his sister and
updates about her family. Her husband and children took over her Facebook page.

Mark Leslie blogged about a friend whom he had known 5 years through the Internet but never
met. They were blogger friends. A month after her death he found out about her demise through
some blogger friends. He paid a tribute to her on his blog saying,” Thank you, Melanie – thanks for
connecting, and thanks for enriching my life. May you rest in peace. “ He wished there was a way
to find out about her demise sooner.

By not providing access to our online life to our heirs there can be weird experiences for people
we are connected to through our virtual profiles. For instance, unless informed, a deceased user’s
info will be going through the Facebook API and he/she will keep popping up on their friend’s
pages informing them to wish happy birthday, etc. This can be creepy and disturbing and to avoid
this from happenning we need to take care of our online accounts before we die to avoid weird,
painful moments for our friends and family.

Our virtual lives are so connected to our physical existence in today’s digital age that leaving our
account info and significant online memories for our loved ones is as important as accounting for
our material possessions like our house, cars, finances and jewelry.

Save your family from painful legal hassles and leave them your online lives through digital estate
planning websites like World Without Me. This is the most comprehensive afterlife planning
website with tools which allow you to store and pass on your passwords, login ids, Pin numbers,
etc. directly to your assigned inheritors. You can also store any significant information and share
your digital footprint which may include your Facebook updates, tweets, emails and any other
important documents to want to store and pass on to your heirs.

About the Author:

Bhaskar Thakur is Entrepreneur, Social Media Evangelist.and founder of World Without Me, world's
first Percial (Personal - Social) platform with solutions for Digital Afterlife and Private Internet.
WorldWithoutMe.com empowers users with tools to plan their Digital Afterlife and Live Digitally
Forever, Create autobiography on the go from their digital footprint and participate in Private

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