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					How To Spice Up Your Marriage or Love Relationship
How You Can Spice Up A Marriage or Long Term Relationship

Lasting love relationships or marriages need some affection and TLC on a consistent basis so they can stay blooming, alive, and healthy. If you
assume that love and marriage relationships can move forward if you don't feed them, you're sadly mistaken. In order to keep the love you have alive,
you've got to give the time to developing that love, in the way it fits for your relationship's dynamic.

A part of enduring marriages and love relationships that can fade after several years together is attraction physically. A number of couples discover
that their love making becomes boring and unexciting. They also could realize they are so busy with careers, other activities or kids that they just don't
have very much time or the energy for a lot of intimacy with each other. They permit their physical relationship to be ignored and allow additional
responsibilities and activities to replace sincerely being with one another.

Invigorating A long term relationship or marriage starts with developing a connection between you, and that can be done in many different ways. It
takes commitment and devotion to establishing this type of connection of the heart and a willingness to allow things that have happened in the past
stay just that, in the past. It demands being honest and candid about what things you're feeling, and will also mean a new beginning in making love
with each other. To revitalize love and passion, it might be a benefit to you to do things that you both used to have fun doing as a couple but no longer
do. It might mean trying something new as a couple that could help you build that feeling of togetherness you once felt.

Intimacy in long-term love or marriage relationships does not need to fade. There are a couple of really simple things you can do now to rekindle love
and intimacy between the two of you. One good way is to find a few minutes to talk about the things you would each like more of in your love or
marriage relationship. The challenge here is to be candid and honest without condemning your spouse or partner. Do you want to have dinner together
once a week? Do you want your partner to be more affectionate? If so, what does affection mean to you? Would you simply like to go out without the
kids each week?

Creating deeper love and more spice in your intimate relationship or marriage can be done, and a lot simpler than you might think. Make the decision
right now that you desire and need a more rewarding relationship. Start now to let more passion and love into your relationship and see how it starts to
change for the better. Start today to build what you want for your life.

About the Author
Susie and Otto Collins are writers and relationship coaches that help couples build lives that are filled with love, connection and passion. For more tips
on heating up your marriage or love relationship, sign up for their free mini course.