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					                                 The Big D (No, Not Dallas)

                                       By Matthew Crider, JD
                                  Family Wealth Protection Attorney



      Here’s something that estate planning attorneys hear a lot: “My husband (or wife) and I
      are getting a divorce. We’re separated right now, but I want to make sure my things
      (assets) go where I want them to go if I die before the divorce is finalized.” Well, the
      quotes might be a little too precise, but you get the idea, which is that people without
      adequate life and estate planning in place face challenges while “in the process” of
      getting divorced.



      Preparing for that which may never happen

      We are not advocating that you put an estate plan in place in case you ever want to get
      divorced. What we are saying, however, is that if an unforeseen set of events causes a
      breakup of your marriage, you will be very vulnerable until the divorce proceedings are
      legally finalized.

      Okay, okay . . . we talk about a lot of depressing subjects like death and divorce, it’s
      true. But what we are trying to do is help you understand that a properly formed estate
      plan can take the worry out of life’s unfortunate and, in some cases, inevitable events.
      That will give you the peace of mind and clarity to make really good choices and make
      the most of the time we’ve borrowed from the universe.



      Typical divorce scenario

      A very typical scenario that we see is a customer who is “in the process” of getting
      divorced but concerned about the ramifications of dying or becoming very ill before the
      divorce is finalized.

      The consequences of death, or a severe illness that leaves an undivorced person
      incapable of making important decisions, are that many of the cards will be held by your
      soon-to-be former spouse. That won’t change until you take the time to develop an
      estate plan that fully omits your future ex from your estate, if that is your desire. If you
      already have a plan in place, the process is relatively straightforward and painless. If
      you don’t have a plan in place, you will burn valuable time making a multitude of
      decisions before a plan can be developed and implemented for you.




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      Of course, a lot depends on the state where you live, because in some jurisdictions laws
      entitle your spouse to certain rights up until the time the divorce is finalized. Homestead
      laws in some states serve as an example. In other states, before there has been a
      clear division of community property (and a waiver of rights), a soon-to-be ex can exert
      a lot of influence over your estate



      If you know a divorce is coming and don’t have a plan

      Contact us right away. If you are going to have an amicable separation and divorce,
      there is a lot that can be done for spouses to separate and waive their interests in
      property. It happens more often than you might think. One thing that you absolutely
      need to make a priority is creating or tweaking your power of attorney, medical directive,
      and living will. If you’re getting a divorce, there’s a good chance that you’ll want
      someone else to make decisions in the event of your incapacity. You’ll also need to
      change some fundamental aspects of your last will. For example, you’ll probably want
      to designate a new executor.

      We hope you’re not planning to get divorced. There are infinite reasons to put an estate
      plan in place without ever considering the big D, but peace of mind if that day comes
      (and it does happen to a lot of marriages) is just one more reason to get a plan in place
      now so that it’s easier to modify in the event you realize divorce is inevitable. Contact
      our offices today to schedule your Family Wealth Planning Session. We will be more
      than happy to meet with you and discuss your needs, no matter what your reasons for
      engaging in the planning process.



      About Matthew Crider, J.D.

      Matthew Crider formed Crider Law PC in 1999 so he could help
      individuals and business owners by providing creative solutions and
      be their trusted advisor and legal counselor. He serves his clients
      by listening closely to their goals, dreams and concerns and
      working with them to develop superior and comprehensive estate
      and asset protection plans. His estate planning practice focuses on
      preserving and growing wealth by providing comprehensive, highly
      personalized estate planning counsel to couples, families,
      individuals and businesses.




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