How to meet women on Facebook.
These days everyone has a facebook page and it‟s a great way to keep in touch.
Facebook has become as fast of a means of communication as texting. It‟s actually faster
to hit someone up on facebook than email. Email is the new snail mail. People are
always online checking their facebook and even have access to it on their cell phones so
they‟re always connected. You can instant message and post from practically anywhere
making a huge social community with instant communication.
Network
Always be networking and adding friends. The more friends you have, the more activity
you will have on your page and others. So add everyone.
Friends of friends
A great way to meet women on facebook is adding friends of friends. Mutual friends.
When you know some of their friends, they wont hesitate to add you, you come across as
a safe person to talk to rather than a complete stranger. “So how do you know so and
so?” “I see you‟re friends with Sarah, how come we‟ve never met?” Chances are, if
you‟re friends with some of their friends you will have some common interests, after all,
we tend to only have friends who share some our interests. I‟ve never had a problem of a
friends friend turning down my friend request and allowing me to “interact” with her.
Suggestions
Browse the list of friends facebook has suggested for you. Most of the time these are
friends of your friends but doing this will save you time from going through your friends
one by one. If the other person uses suggestions, chances are they have seen your profile
before. Here‟s a tip, just like in real life, women don‟t like to hit on men, it„s not socially
acceptable. So women are hesitant to add you as a friend or send you a message when
they don‟t even know you, it comes across too strong. They want you to do the work
first. You are a man right? It‟s your duty to engage in conversation.
Add everyone you meet.
When you‟re out and about and talking to women, get their facebook info. “Do you have
a facebook?“ “You do!?“ (act surprised) “well we should totally be friends.“ You can do
this right then and there when you meet them. People have access to facebook from their
phones and can add you right away. It doesn‟t matter if they‟re fat, ugly or not your type.
They have friends, and their friends might be into you. It‟s called networking. Every
woman you meet has something to offer you, even if you‟re not into them so don‟t waste
an exchange. “your friends are kinda cute, you should set me up!” Women like to play
match maker because if they set two people up, they'll get to be in the wedding. Just
think, at least now there‟s no more awkward blind dates. You can see what each other
look like and chat a few times first!
Join common interest groups
Join groups and your schools page. You can meet a lot of women who share common
interest in groups. Once you join, be active in the group. Post and comment regularly.
Bars and restaurants have fan pages, and their fans are all people in your community.
Add all your favorite places and meet some women who enjoy them too.
Comment & posting.
Now that you have friends and ladies, don‟t just sit there. Comment on their status„,
pictures, just don‟t over do it. You‟re not best friends, but every once and a while post or
make a funny comment on a photo or status. Tease them, flirt, talk to them on IM, it‟s
good practice for you. You should constantly be talking to women even if you‟re not into
them. If you want to be good at the game you need practice and facebook gives you all
the practice you need.
Post funny status‟
If you‟re not funny, start looking around the web for funny videos to post. Have you
seen the you tube video of Charles Barkley swinging a golf club? CLASSIC. Well I post
that at the start of every golf season. Here‟s a good status or even a question to ask to
people while they‟re online… “what‟s your favorite you tube video?” If you‟re
desperate, there‟s sites online that have funny status updates you can post as your own,
just switch them up a little. It‟s best to think of your own and get creative. You can
always post something funny a comedian said. Women love it and will post on your page
giving you credibility when you constantly post funny quotes or funny stuff all the time.
I‟m constantly posting funny status‟ videos, and just positive upbeat inspirational quotes.
Women always love it.
Building your profile
Your profile is an important part of who you are. Remember, these people don‟t know
you very well and they can learn a lot about you from what‟s on your profile. But there‟s
a catch, you don‟t want to tell your whole story. In the past we talked about being
mysterious, you don‟t want to give them all the details of who you are, you want them
wanting to know more about you. So give them a little and be funny. You don‟t need to
list where you work, political views etc. Leave the boring details out, no one cares. Try
to be as interesting as you can and be funny.
Photos
This is equivalent to first impressions in real life. This is the first thing they are going to
look at is your pictures. Especially your displayed photo, so make it good. It should
describe who you are. If you‟re not a fisherman, don‟t have a photo of you reeling in that
10 lbs bass. Your photo should be recent, showing what you look like now, having fun.
A good one is an action picture of you having fun. You want to make sure you can tell
who you are in your profile picture, so a picture of you out with friends is not a good
idea, they‟ll wonder which one is you. I hate that when looking at a woman‟s page, then
I have to go through her photos to figure out which one she is.
Clean up your photos.
The thing I hate the most about facebook is people tagging me in pictures. The only
pictures I want on my page are pictures of me that look good. Unfortunately you can‟t
stop people from tagging you, but you can certainly remove the tag and unwanted photos.
You don‟t need thousands of photos either, just a few good ones.
While I‟ll admit I don‟t normally look at women‟s profiles on facebook like I should,
there‟s a lot of info on them for you to use. So once you‟re friends, browse their profile
and get some info on them.
Bonus tip.
What ever you do, don‟t poke. It‟s not cool anymore, and chicks get a ton a day. They
just ignore them now a days. Now you CAN develop a poking relationship down the
line, friends with poking benefits if you will, but don‟t just poke her and expect her to
respond and message you back. Have the balls in the first place to send her a message,
don„t beat around the bush. I always make fun of poking… “You seem interesting and
you know so and so, we should be friends so I can poke you 5 times a day and leave
creepy comments on your posts. ;)”
It‟s always better to meet women in real life and when you do, get their face book info.
There‟s nothing wrong with meeting women online, but you want to make sure you can
still communicate live in person. Nothing beats a social interaction in person, that‟s
where all the magic happens.