How To Make Your Ex Boyfriend Want You Back and Save Your Relationship by steveajackson

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									How To Make Your Ex Boyfriend Want You Back And Save Your Relationship

Do you feel like everything you try is driving your ex away? Are you lying awake at night
panicking that nothing you do seems to work? Do you find yourself thinking of nothing but
how to make your ex boyfriend want you back? Right now the situation may seem
desperate and you may be completely at a loss as to what to do next, but here are a few
ideas that could help to make your ex boyfriend want you back.

If you are reading this then clearly you want to save your relationship or to reignite the
spark. However, you may also be panicking about how you can make your ex want you
again. Unfortunately there is a good change that this panic and worry is displaying itself in
your behaviour and may actually be driving your ex further away. Look at it from the point
of view of your ex - if you come across as desperate and needy then this will simply push
him away.

Are you frequently sending your ex text messages and emails? Do you find yourself ringing
him regularly or finding ways to be at places that he's going to be? This won't make him
feel sorry for you or want you, it will just make you seem like a stalker. So if you are asking
yourself how to make your ex boyfriend want you back then the first thing you need to do it
stop what you are doing.

So, how to make your ex boyfriend want you back? Well, as difficult as it may seem, you
need to take this approach instead.

What you need to do is the very last thing you will want to do right now and that is to stop
all contact of any kind with your ex. It is an incredibly difficult thing to do when all you want
to do is see and speak to your ex. However you need to be strong and use your time to look
at your own personal life and how you can make this better. As tough as it may be, doing
this will give you the best possible chance of getting him back.

Why does this work? Put simply, it gives him the chance to miss you and also become more
curious as suddenly he has no idea where you are and what you are doing. You've heard
the phrase "absence makes the heart grow fonder"? Well in this case it actually can work -
he has the chance to think about you and the good times you had rather than trying to
avoid you or delete more and more of your frequent messages.

This method works by "going with the flow" rather than battling against it - its human
nature to fight against something if somebody else is trying to make you do it. If you are
asking how to make your ex boyfriend want you back then at least now you will be able to
avoid one of the biggest mistake that so many people make and you'll give your ex
boyfriend time to remember the good times and what attracted you to him.

The important things to remember are that by trying to pull him to you you are actually
pushing him away and that by staying calm and giving him the chance to remember the
good times and what attracted him to you then you'll be able to hold him in your arms again
rather than spending night after night wondering how to make your ex boyfriend want you

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back.

What can have a dramatic effect, just as you break off contact is something a little different.
In a world of text messages, IMs and email...sending a HANDWRITTEN letter to your ex is
MUCH more emotional and effective than sending 4 screens full of text message.

One of the most powerful things you can do to create a vacuum and have your ex possibly
pursue you...is to AGREE with a break up in a hand written note.

BE CAREFUL! What you say in the note and how you say it can have positive or negative
effects. For an outline of what to put in your note watch the video at
http://www.howtosaveyourlove.com




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