Self Analysis Questions 1. Are you single, attached, partnered, married, divorced, widow, widower? 2. Do you have kids? 3. Do you want more kids? 4. Do you have pets? 5. Do you get along well with your partner? 6. If yes, why; if not, why? 7. What do you do to enjoy each others company and what can you do to enjoy each other even more? 8. Do you and your partner plan enough alone time to keep getting to know each other as you grow? 9. Do you and your partner talk about future plans? 10. Do you and your partner have some of the same goals for your future as well as your own? 11. Do both of you work on them by sitting and discussing them as they change on a regular basis? 12. Any goals change on your end right now, if so, how or what? 13. What compromises will you make to fit into both of your future plans of a life together? 14. Do you plan to be with your partner for life? 15. Why do you plan to be with your partner for life? 16. What do you offer your partner that makes them want to be with you for life (not money)? 17. How or what could you do to better the relationship with your partner? 18. What is your favorite indoor family activity to do together? 19. What is your favorite thing to do with your significant other (keep it clean) LOL? 20. What is your favorite thing to do with you child(ren)?21. What is favorite outdoor or outing activity to do with your child(ren)? 22. If you are a grand parent, favorite indoor activity to do with your grandchil(ren)? 23. What is your favorite thing to do as a family? 24. What was you favorite thing to do with your kids growing up? 25. Do you do this now with your grandchil(ren) also? 26. Who matters the most to you in your life (may be multiple)? 27. Why do they matter the most to you (may be multiple)? 28. What part do they paly in your life that makes them so important to you (may be multiple)? 29. Do you think you matter the same to the one(s) you listed, if not why? 30. Are you religious or at least believe in a higher athuority? 31. Does religion matter to you? 32. Why does it matter to you if it does? 33. Do you go to church or feel you need to and why either way? 34. What is your favorite food or foods? 35. What is your favorite to cook? 36. Where do you eat out at the most? 37. What is your favaorite restaurant to eat out at and why? 38. What do you like to do to have fun and unwind? 39. Do you like your friends? 40. Are your friends there for you when you need them? 41. Are your friends non-judgemental? 42. Who or what motivates you in life?43. What are you missing in life right now that you would like to have more of (may be multiple)? 44. Are you happy with your life as it is? 45. If not, what are you doing to make changes in and to it? 46. Do you like to get away at all? 47. Do you take day trips? 48. If so, where to and why? 49. Where do you vacation to and why? 50. What type of vehicle do you have? 51. What type of vehicle would you like to have? 52. What is your favorite kind of vehicle? 53. Do you strive to end up with your favorite vehicle if you do not have it and why if not? 54. Where do you work? 55. What kind of work do you do? 56. Do you like the work that you do? 57. What kind of work would you like to do? 58. Where would you like to work? 59. Why are you not working where you would like to work? 60. Where are you now? 61. Where do you hope to be career wise a year from now? 62. Where do you live? 63. Who do you live with? 64. Do you like who you live with? 65. Would you rather have your own place if living with someone else?66. Do you rent or own a home? 67. If you rent are you happy with your rent? 68. Do you always plan on being a renter, paying for them to own and not you? 69. Have you checked on any of what it takes to buy your own home to be an informed buyer? 70. Have you thought about buying your own home? 71. Would you rather own your own home? 72. What are you doing to get prepared for owning your own home? 73. What is your favorite style of home if it matters? 74. Where do you hope to be five years from now in your life? 75. Where do you want to be working five years? 76. Where do you want to be living five years? 77. What do you want in your life the most five years? 78. Where do you hope to be ten years from now in your life? 79. Where do you hope to be working ten years from now? 80. Where do you want to be living ten years from now? 81. What do you most want in or out of your life the ten years? 82. Do you think any of the above questions matter or that they will help you make a difference in helping you to see where you are and where you want to be headed in five years and where you hope to have landed in ten years? List as much or as many as will help you decide.83. If yes, what do you think you need to work on the most to get yourself headed in the direction you need to to end up in the place you want to be headed in five years from now and landed in in ten years from? List as much or as many as will help you decide?